Mixed Signals...Is He Into Me?

There's a guy I met at a party and we hit it off right away. We had a lot in common, he gave me his sweater when I was cold, tried to warm up my hands. He kept on telling me how he likes how I'm honest, straight forward and non-judgmental to people. We have the same taste in music, he kept on singing to me and trying to get me to dance. We kept on making each other laugh, he tells me I should be a writer for Hollywood cuz I'm so funny.We ended up talking from 2am-9am, after that he fell asleep on me. He tried to ask me to go for breakfast, but I couldn't because I had to work that day.

When I had to leave, no contact info was exchanged. So after a few days I msged him over Facebook (since we had photos together and were tagged on there), asking if he wanted to hang out. He gave me his number, I gave him mine, then he told me his phone was gone, but he was free for a day and wouldn't mind coming along.MSN info was exchanged, we talked on there two times, both times were at least 2 hour conversations. Then when I asked him to go out that day he said he had to work. Didn't talk to him for a week after that, ended up msging him again today, we talked for a bit and then he said he had another day off tomorrow but he has errands to do and that his computer is broken and he's using his bro's. I don't know about you guys, but it really seems like he's giving me mixed signals, like first he's interested, but then I had to go after his contact info, then his phone is gone, he wants to hang out, now his computer is broken. Either he has really bad luck or else he really doesn't like me. I don't understand! Please try and help :S I feel like I'm the one who has to chase after him... - Answered by Tamsen Fadal & Matt Titus on GirlsAskGuys.com

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[GardenCalifornia]

If a guy was giving me mixed signals... Well, I'm a pretty blunt person. I would probably just tell him, "He look, it seems as though you like me. But you obviously aren't sure weather or not you wanna get closer to me. I'm 29, and I'm not lookin to play games. So how about we just don't contact each other, until you've had some time to make up your mind one way or the other. Or until I just decide I don't need this, an move on."

[iluvjustinbieber426]

I was wondering if u can help me. there's this one guy at school and we talk alot and he gives me hugs and we hangout but the next day he acts like he doesn't even know me. is he into me or not? Wat should I do? Pls help

[jeannaegirl]

@MsBadiva I know what u mean. Actually.

[mxyonniegirl]

touch him gently on his arm and look into his eyes when he's talking and make sure u can answer his questions

[monse1232]

if ANYBODY reads this please help! so there's this guy at my job that i like and am attracted to he asked for my # but i turned him down b/c im a complete idiot and i over analyzed everything about the situation. his friends were around when he was getting off work and i didnt want to make myself seem like it was that easy to get my #. but i regret it b/c now idk if he's still interested but we still talk at work and idk how to approach the subject again. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[MsBadiva]

I hate being vulnerable too, especially since I've gotten rejected so many times by guys who I thought liked me (and not a single success yet). I don't wait around for the guy anymore if he doesn't ask me out or something.

[lacenda100]

Why do men in a relationship. Say one thing and do another

[mzk123ify]

If likes you he is gonna make it clear. If he is too shy, trying a tactic, unclear of his feelings, then you are not that important to him. You need to be quick with decisions and cut these men off...we need to take back the control ladies and force these boys to be men! My hand in marriage has been asked 5 times and I don't call men EVER..they don't move fast enough I move on. Wait??..uh how bout no way!

[teasingmeification]

@GardenCalifornia If you do that you'll never get anywhere. I hate to break it to you but that's the truth. The mixed signals thing is all part of the seduction technique and we all do it.

[munayarey]

Women/Girls: Honestly having a great relationship starts by CLOSING YOUR LEGS! seriously, let the physical part of the relationship develop last! Start building communication, trust, honesty and friendship! And also you don't want to mistake LUST for LOVE Take it from someone who is in a loving relationship and is extremely happy and about to get married! :).

[TheRagdoll3]

I've got the same problem....he texts me then doesn't. I text him at 3pm and still nothing! He's been all 'you're so pretty' etc but in actual fact he doesn't care, why bother playing me around?!

[KayBayBoo3]

@soccermonster95 yes guys dont know how to express their feelings so they end up just bei3ng a jerk to us to get our attention it meens they like you most of the time