Verbal Abuse, Why?

I've recently discovered that verbal abuse is a common method of hatred that people use against each other very often. I felt the need to address it.

Please show this video to anyone who might be having a problem in relation to verbal abuse.

Music: "White Flag (Karaoke Version by Starlite Karaoke)"- Dido

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[sinbysin666]

Verbal abuse may suck, but I always get pissed of at these videos and similar campaigns. You are not better than anyone else. Everyone has told someone "fuck off, idiot" at some point, in some way.

[KristenCorpse]

@sinbysin666 Who ever said that I was better than anybody else? But the reality is that some people receive it more than others and it actually effects people in a more dramatic way than, "Aw, they don't like me. That sucks." I made this video for those people, the ones that have been HURT by it and had it take over. No one should have to deal with something like this.

[jcramir2]

"i hope you know that nobody likes you." That kind of crap hurts your feelings?Seriously? Grow some balls!

[KristenCorpse]

@jcramir2 I'm a female so I'd rather not "grow some balls". But yeah, things like that can hurt a person in certain situations if it's said to them by people who can have enough of an emotional impact on them.

[krissygooo]

Haha. But what if the verbal abuse is from your mom?

[KristenCorpse]

@krissygooo You have to try to deal with it to the best of your ability and keep her as content as possible so you can avoid any conflicts until you're able to be out on your own. Certain solutions could be not telling her things that could get her angry or upset, helping out around the house a bit more to keep her a little more satisfied, and other things like that.

[FallenAngelBKR251]

@hottychik010123 Ummmm.. easy solution. DUMP HIS ASS! You have the power to make a change. And only you. If there is something about your life that you don't like, CHANGE IT! Jesus, I see crap like this over and over and over, and NO ONE realizes that the reason you are suffereing is BECAUSE YOU LET IT HAPPEN! I was beaten as a child, to the point I was hospitalized, so to hear that words hurt as much as a fist really pisses me off. I CHANGED my life. And, I broke my dad's nose...

[alohasarahgirl]

@sinbysin666 You don't understand the tactics of verbal abuse. You are taking it too literally.

[silverado0938]

if I looked up emo on wiki it would bring me to this page.

[kimmyfreak200]

dooming comments come from angry people with no communication skills they feed off their own emotions and pain. its a sad evil in humans

[IngallsFan]

@FallenAngelBKR251 You say you will not pretend you know my situation, and yet you do. Parents constantly telling their children they are lowlife scum, they are worth nothing, they will never get anywhere, and parents constantly fighting and neglecting their children, not giving them enough food, never asking how they are doing, causing panic attacks and suicide, that is what has been the case in the family in which I grew up. You have no idea, so don't pretend like you do. Besides, I'm 30.

[IngallsFan]

@FallenAngelBKR251 Indeed you do not know my situation. You do not know about my broken bones, about my constant bruising, about my one eye being blind because of it. I was physically abused as well as verbally, and still the verbal abuse hurt me more than the physical abuse. It's just different for different people.

[santafekmg2]

theres no kirsten ever got bullyed shes cool with everyone

[FallenAngelBKR251]

@IngallsFan Then apparently you haven't been physically abused. Trust me. The verbal abuse only hurts if you let it. Parents say all sorts of things that to a young adult may seem like abuse, but in a few years, it will make sense. I will not pretend to know your situation, and it may be a bad one. But to my ears, it sounds as though you have strict parents, hardass' like myself, and you resent it. You only have to deal with it until you are 18 and then you can find out life at home wasn't sobad

[IngallsFan]

@FallenAngelBKR251 I'm doing just fine, thanks. I just can't stand it if people say verbal abuse is less bad than physical abuse, because in my experience it is much worse. The abuse was from my parents, the kids at school were just being bullies.

[FallenAngelBKR251]

@IngallsFan There will always be some asshat running you down. The sooner you learn that, the better. Life sucks, there will always be trials to overcome. But by saying that you are abused by kids at school is bullcrap. Enlighten me, what is it that your parents and kids at school say that is so bad. Maybe I can give you the tools you need to survive. I've been there, done that. Maybe I can help.