Marrying Young - LuvemOrLeavem Series

Does getting married young help or hurt the chances of a marriage surviving? Hear what LuvemOrLeavem has to say about marrying young and if there is an ideal age to marry. To view the advice panel series visit
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[SimplyGetPaid]

Marriage out of high school? - ..'Hell no! Wait until at least 25'.

1. Any individual needs a certain number of 'independent' years. (To learn themselves in terms of success, etc.)

2. People often outgrow their spouses. (A lot of soul searching is still taking place even though you may be mature for your age.)

3. You're not old enough to have seen enough 'games'. (You aren't proficient in 'reading the writing on the wall.')

4. You haven't encountered enough other people, personalities...

[LuvemOrLeavem]

I have to admit I tried to dance around this issue more than I should have. The numbers don't show that these people are much worse off, but numbers don't always tell the whole story. Since I wouldn't recommend this for my own kids, it's true that in my gut I do think that everyone would be better off waiting.

Your comment helped remind me why this year's goal is to take a stronger stand in my videos. Thanks.

[cbuggyfl]

id say (and this might be hypocrytical cuz i wanna get married right now and im not out of highschool yet) to wait a year after graduation to realize what itll kinda be like in the "real world" before getting married. Of course, right of school there isnt much financial support to go around for two college students, and that's the issue im concerned with right now with my future husband.

[SpousalAnomaly]

"I'm maxed out so adding marriage wouldn't be good now." BS!!! My wedding cost me $50 and now we have double the income. That doesn't make sense, there is more income to be made...plus if you already have debt..its the same married or not..but if you are married, at least you have a partner to work through it with u.