Domestic Violence and Child Custody

One of the most dangerous myths about family violence is the presumption that family court will protect domestic abuse suvivors. Learn how you can protect yourself and your children.

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[petermontesino]

I went to court to file for custody of my daughter because her mother wanted to go to a shelter with my daughter because it speeds up the process of getting a low rent apartment while Her grandmother owned a 2 family house which she had access to and was served with notice of a restraining had been filed against me with no proof or no court appearance to fight it, which kept me away from my daughter while she and her mother lived in a shelter, I never had any of the so called charges

[nthomas32]

My boyfriend was married to a horrible abusive woman who verbally and physically abused him, kept him from his friends and family, and nearly destroyed his life. He finally got out and is a very happy man. But I know he still hurts from what happened to him,

[americanbrookie]

please help me!!! This is what I'm dealing with right now! My son is being abused!! He was abusive to me, drug out our court battle for years, won custody of my youngest son, and now CPS has informed me that they and the police are investigating him for child abuse!!

[petermontesino]

@AngryActivist45 you dont even know me so how can you slander people

[petermontesino]

@AngryActivist45 you dont know me so dont judge me she went to a shelter to get an apartment and now I have full custody, because of her lies so it goes to show people like you judge and convict people who do nothing.

[mrrlintner]

I love listening to these kind of videos and counting how many times the interviewer uses the word "He" when referring to the attacker. That is not true and it just shows how many people assume that it is always the woman being attacked not the woman attacking the man. It doesn't have to be violent. Verbal abuse is still abuse. Also all of the pictures in this particular video were of men cornering the woman. Talk about be biased. Nice

[kevinawz]

My problems started when my ex stated when we seperated that I could see my child, who I cared for at 50% of the time, once a month. When I defied her by taking her to court, the allegations began. All her allegations were dismissed by the police, hospitals, CSA and finally a psycologist who assessed the mother was exceptionally deceptive. I have full custody today of my daughter and the mother does not pay child support. The real epidemic is the abuse custodial parents wreak on the NCP and kids

[thestreetdogg]

What was I thinking to marry an American Girl. American Men go merry girls in my country and I the smart person ignore all those Signs and get with Gold diggers.

I have never seen girls who take both roles as a man and women while treating their MAN like sex objects and disposable ones. Teaching boys to have no obligation, no responsibility in life other than have sex. A friend of mine American cant even use his bank Card, she has it. oh i cant stand girls in this country.

[thestreetdogg]

Nways, I won the Child, I have 182.5 days a year with my daughter, I was fighting for 50%. I have not yet recovered from all that shit. Financially just above water, not in debt. But 11 years of savings gone. A lot of MEN are not as lucky as I was to have FULL family support while going through that shit. Because of the Laws a lot Men just give up, they know and they dont even Fight. I fought because I did not know Laws in this Fucking USA. So I learned. welcome to USA.

[thestreetdogg]

I was arrested, for first time in my life. lost my job, and any contact with child, and child custody was almost finished while Criminal charges pending.The Police told me, oh man ur not the first one, we know but we have to arrest you. Judge said: NO crime was ever committed and all charges dropped in the request of state. Mother I am disgusted of you.

but, just like that I lost every fucking thing, no job for 9 months, and over 20,000$ in courts. at end for her was I AM DISGUSTED. THATS IT.

[thestreetdogg]

I was accused of child abuse while going through child custody. She said: he came to my house forced his self inside, pushed me and removed a necklace from my daughter violently and left.

I was 45 miles away playing cards with Family, however 4 hours earlier we meet to talk about potentially reaching an agreement in child custody outside the court, as the law encourage parents to do.

Charged with: Felony Child Abuse, Felony Mother abuse, Leaving Crime scene and forced entry. continue1

[thestreetdogg]

The Problem is Family Laws. When entering Child custody/Divorce the whole process is set up to be like a battle, with a winner at the end. Its the system, its the lawyers, its everything around. Child-ren are the last, as the main focus is to compleately destroy one Parent, and 90% of the time is the Father. Child Abuse accusation in child custody is called a "Silver bullet" because the accused stands absolutely NO chance in any kind of rights with the child.