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Uploaded by on Feb 6, 2010

click here http://www.Elaine4Success.com. Entrepreneurial Mindset. It requires an entrepreneurial mindset to deal with emotional button pushers. It is just one of those days. Murphys Law declares that what could go wrong, will go wrong. Parkinsons law states that Murphy was an optimist. When one of those situations slaps your face and kicks your emotional equilibrium out of the park, sit back, take a deep breath and use a tension release system.
Everyone experiences having their emotional buttons pushed. Sometimes our family, friends and co-workers perfect the technique of knowing exactly where to insert the emotional electric shock barb.

Science has not discovered the exact location of a filter between the thoughts and the outward sound of the knife sharp words. In fact, the possibility exists that some people may have a faulty installation of that filter. Not everyone came equipped with a think before you speak mechanism. Some people seem completely oblivious of the necessity for such a filter. Some people are simply oblivious to the feelings of others; they either do not care or are unconscious of verbal impacts.

Remember, it is not about you, it is their issue. Unfortunately you are left to deal with the wounded ego.

It is not a matter of IF your emotional buttons will be pushed, but when. Reacting openly and with hostility to the perpetrator of the verbal zinger only extends your pain. The more public attention you draw to the insult, the more impact it has on everyone. Let it go and use the Lincoln letter, scream at a chair, physical exercise or laugh system to relieve your tension and restore your sanity.
In case your filter has a faulty installation, contact me at www.Elaine4Success.com for a filter implementation or repair.

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