I have myself learned from some negative experiences which I never would have picked for myself to learn from, and your right, we must lose the fear. The negative experiences truly were a blessing in disguise. Took me a long time to let go of the fear associated with them. Looking back with hindsight, I can see that I probably would not have learned any other way so I have to bless the negative for sure for being my best teacher.
@TheDoveLady : ) Very true .. But transformation from lessons learned from negative experiences has a liberating effect ( if you can overcome the fear ) if not your doomed anyway .. Love .. Learn .. Forgive then Forget .. These are the keys to freedom : )
'Or your doomed to repeat them' to finish out that sentiment.
There is a fine line here, for you want to remember what did not work before, yet often it is the fear that people will focus on yet again when recalling the past. Then the fear can again create and it becomes a self fulfilling prophesy.
If one does remember the past, at least it is best in my opinion, not to dwell on the intense emotional feelings one had, for our subconscious is likely to recreate it.
@miragin7
I have myself learned from some negative experiences which I never would have picked for myself to learn from, and your right, we must lose the fear. The negative experiences truly were a blessing in disguise. Took me a long time to let go of the fear associated with them. Looking back with hindsight, I can see that I probably would not have learned any other way so I have to bless the negative for sure for being my best teacher.
TheDoveLady 1 year ago
@TheDoveLady : ) Very true .. But transformation from lessons learned from negative experiences has a liberating effect ( if you can overcome the fear ) if not your doomed anyway .. Love .. Learn .. Forgive then Forget .. These are the keys to freedom : )
miragin7 1 year ago
@miragin7
'Or your doomed to repeat them' to finish out that sentiment.
There is a fine line here, for you want to remember what did not work before, yet often it is the fear that people will focus on yet again when recalling the past. Then the fear can again create and it becomes a self fulfilling prophesy.
If one does remember the past, at least it is best in my opinion, not to dwell on the intense emotional feelings one had, for our subconscious is likely to recreate it.
TheDoveLady 1 year ago
Surely you must look back to learn from your mistakes ..
miragin7 1 year ago