@GanadaSarang Well, I DO blame parents who abandon their kids after give birth because too selfish. That's it. Having kids or not should be extremely serious issue for adult, but selfish people exist all the time. As I know for most people adopt baby from foreign countries for many different reasons such as they have some medical problem, or they want more family member etc. I grown up in China, I've seen how do children been treated and how the population grow to 1.6b and still growing.
@SuperBlacx in what position are you to say that reunion is unnecessary?? besides there can be many reasons for parents to choose for adoption, you are in no position to blame them
I'm really confused for some adoptee who are looking for their biological parents. I think it's unnecessary indeed. They abandoned you for selfish reason, why want to see them. Kids have no choice of received birth, but parents definitely have choice of giving birth. I think the greatest parents are those ones who really LOVE kids, not those one who doesn't really care but have sex for daily routine.
I'm Chinese, i've seen many Americans and Canadians went to China for adoption. I honestly believe those kids who been successfully adopted are the super lucky ones. I remembered one time there was a group adopted many kids from one village, all of kids were girls except one boy who has harelip problem. I looked at those adopter parents, i see nothing but love. They really deserve to have kids no matter biological or adopted. God knows how those little kids been mistreat before adopted.
@GanadaSarang Well, I DO blame parents who abandon their kids after give birth because too selfish. That's it. Having kids or not should be extremely serious issue for adult, but selfish people exist all the time. As I know for most people adopt baby from foreign countries for many different reasons such as they have some medical problem, or they want more family member etc. I grown up in China, I've seen how do children been treated and how the population grow to 1.6b and still growing.
SuperBlacx 10 months ago
@SuperBlacx in what position are you to say that reunion is unnecessary?? besides there can be many reasons for parents to choose for adoption, you are in no position to blame them
GanadaSarang 10 months ago
I'm really confused for some adoptee who are looking for their biological parents. I think it's unnecessary indeed. They abandoned you for selfish reason, why want to see them. Kids have no choice of received birth, but parents definitely have choice of giving birth. I think the greatest parents are those ones who really LOVE kids, not those one who doesn't really care but have sex for daily routine.
SuperBlacx 11 months ago
I'm Chinese, i've seen many Americans and Canadians went to China for adoption. I honestly believe those kids who been successfully adopted are the super lucky ones. I remembered one time there was a group adopted many kids from one village, all of kids were girls except one boy who has harelip problem. I looked at those adopter parents, i see nothing but love. They really deserve to have kids no matter biological or adopted. God knows how those little kids been mistreat before adopted.
SuperBlacx 11 months ago
Hi, were you able to record the Stickam discussion? I would be interested in watching it. My wife and I adopted a boy and girl (6 & 4 now).
Thanks,
Eric
MPLS, MN
vmax1997 2 years ago