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University Of Metaphysical Sciences, Christine Breese
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Wisdom Of The Heart Church 501(c)3
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Starlight Journal Ezine Metaphysical Newsletter
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Christine Breese
http://www.christinebreese.info
http://www.christinebreese.com

These talks by Christine Breese are satsang videos especially for the internet directly to you, sponsored by University Of Metaphysical Sciences. Christine Breese is the founder of University of Metaphysical Sciences, which offers Bachelors, Masters, Doctorate D.D. and Ph.D. degrees in metaphysical subjects.

Christine Breese speaks often of being still in the mind and being in the moment. This is only the beginning of enlightenment. After that, the experience of knowing the self that you are is ever deepening and the journey truly never ends. If you would like to meet Christine Breese in person, she offers retreats throughout the year. You can contact University Of Metaphysical Sciences at http://umsonline.org/MeditationRetreats/WinterMeditationSatsangRetreats/Calif... for retreat schedules or registration. You can also hear 10 minute meditations by Christine at MySpace at http://www.myspace.com/awakennowretreats

If you would like transcripts of these Christine Breese, University Of Metaphysical Sciences videos, visit:
http://www.christinebreesevideotranscripts.com

Christine Breese says, "Letting go of a relationship that is ending, or love that has gone sour, is something you have to do whether you like it or not. There is no way to hold on to a relationship that is slipping away. If you hold onto it at the end, you only cause yourself great suffering and polarize the person from even being willing to be in a friendship with you. You cause yourself pain, struggle and sadness. Love gone sour is poisonous. There is no need to make the ending of a relationship more painful than it already is. Accept the pain that is there with the ending relationship, and be willing to release the struggle so that you don't have to create a more painful experience in the ending of that relationship."

"Might as well be friends with the person you were in a relationship with, if that is possible. True relationships are hard to come by, even in the form of friendships. If you have been that close to each other, might as well be friends! Mature couples can do that, letting go of the previous form of the relationship that is ending and allowing a new form to come after the end. Then love that has gone sour can turn into a deeper love that lasts through time. Pain can be turned into wisdom, and struggle can be avoided altogether."

"To let go of a relationship that is ending, just relax and let go of your attachment to having the relationship. Realize that another will come. It is not the last relationship you will ever have. It is not the last opportunity you will have. This is not the end of "everything" even though it might seem that way. To let go of a relationship that is ending, you must be willing to be in the no man's land for a little while and allow yourself to be alone. Letting go of an ending relationship is a sign of mastery and acceptance in life, allowing things to come and go in your reality without struggle. If you are able to let go of things when they end, letting go will become a relief rather than a frightening experience."

"You came to be very familiar with the relationship and it gave you stability, even if it was a rocky and unpleasant relationship. However, by letting go of this relationship, you make room for a new and higher relationship to happen, one that is more fitting for you. The fact that things come and go, things begin and end, that is a good thing. It means that there is always change, which is healthy. So let the relationships come and go in your life as they will, let go when it is time to let go at the end, and if a relationship is meant to stick, it will. If not, let it go without struggle and relationships will be less painful when they end."

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  • one of the best messages i have ever heard about relationship breakups ever. Clinging is suffering- not easy but so true. I hope any one who is suffering must listen to this video every day - several times a day. We must stop loving the feeling of clinging and start loving the feeling of letting go. Namaste x

  • i recently ended a relationship with someone i wanted more from. we dated for a yr i just never felt like he loved me, there was never a chase, deepen passion to be with me. restlessness...feeling bouts of ups & downs it was exhausting. but ive learned a new lesson & i wish him the best.

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  • Thanks so much for uploading such awesome vids... You're wonderful... :0)

  • @zazazu7U7 :/

  • I am trying to help my friend cause he is suicidal, his girlfriend past last year...he seems doesnt want to get better...I feel hopeless...I dont want him to kill himself he is only 27....

  • i dont know how to let go i am having some serious difficulties. i was planning to marry this girl and were always off and on with happyness and sadness, idk what too doo anymore. weve been in it for about 2 years now and we dont see eachother much, its a long distance relationship thing and were still teenagers. Its very hard and just gets harder but you cant help who you love and its hard to let go of good things. i am not good at this. :/

  • Let go and something new will fill the spot before long. Hold on and the spot will remain empty until you allow it to be filled by letting go. Simple yet true.

  • She's right. Crap isn't worth holding on to. Letting bad things go releases a lot of weight.

  • I just love your words - so simple to understand but it's putting them into practice that can be the stumbling block. But it's like most things in this life - Practice makes perfect. We humans are constantly trying to strike the balance between Separation and Attachment, we want to connect with others and feel like we belong and are part of the whole, but we must also learn to love and let go. Holding on can prevent you from evolving and moving forward. Lovely Post

  • @halation777 When they leave, they are doing you a favour - believe me!

  • *hugs* Ty for this.

  • @angelsaura1

    Sometimes you have to do what's best for you and realize that, even though the decision to leave someone might look like something they might not be able to handle, it is usually best for both of you. When my ex left me she did it because she couldn't handle the depression she was in. It was excruciating for me to lose her but now, a year later, I'm so glad she left because neither of us were happy. I have a chance to move on and so does she.

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