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Manhood Training is a good thing. Increasing awareness is a good thing. Organizing is a good thing. Petitioning your enemy and matching to change the laws, well, you be the judge. Beloved, we are in the grips of some cold blooded crackers. They don't change laws to suit our needs. They make laws to freeze us in time. This is war! You are living in a state of war!! You can't ask the general of your enemy's camp to loan you some ammo!!!
1/2 The problem is black men CANNOT protect their children from the biggest danger to children - their single mothers, and that's because the laws of our respective countries are such that women have absolute control over children. It has nothing to do with living a "boys" lifestyle it's about waking men up to the realities. Why is that men must take all the risks and suffer the entire hit when it goes wrong with women? I'd rather be a "boy" than a man with a babymama who won't let him see
his children and then be labelled a deadbeat dad. Don't forget nobody wants to hear the male side of the story, if a woman's a single mother it's always because babydaddy run out.
F that shit.
The best protector of children are their fathers if people care about black children then they should fight for changes in the law to protect the father child relationship from interference by ANYONE including and especially mothers.
Brother I think we are on the same side. I am all for the greater awareness of black men on all levels, not just about women. That's why I posted "African Manhood" on my channel. We differ greatly in that you believe that black men CANNOT, and I believe they can. Life is more difficult. Protecting our children is more difficult. But it is not impossible! So we must become more clever. But we still have to do our job as men. So just be there for my black child and I will be there for yours.
I believe that men cannot and will not be able to do for their children unless they challenge the laws that prevent them from doing so. Your position is to my mind an accomodationist one where we accept impossible obtacles as part and parcel of being a father. It is unrealistic to and grossly unfair expect men to find a way around vicious man made anti-father laws and womens abuse of those laws in order to have a r/shp with their own children.
Most men do not have the time or resources to combat the system on their own, which is why we need to deal with system by organising many men to demand fair treatment in it. That is a CAN DO ethic Sir. There is nothing heroic or "real man" about trying to fight a mammoth (the system) alone. It's very easy to lecture men about persisting despite the obstacles but such remarks are empty cliches which address nothing, because lack of trying is not the problem.
There are real problems to do with how the system disrupts the father child r/tsp that CAN ONLY be addresed by adressing the system, not by more man blaming nonsense which barracks men to simply "try harder". That has not worked - so we know was DOESN'T work. It's time to try something different and that's where men like me come in. If we really are on the same side then I see no reason for you to have a problem with what I'm proposing.
I believe my responsibilty to black children is to help create a FATHERFULL environment for them, I don't believe in "it takes a village" philosophies which are taken out of context and misapplied in the societies we live in.
So let me get this straight. The white man stole your women for his purposes. Now he has bound you by his laws and you want to protest. You are going to organize and tell the white law makers, that their laws are inhibiting you from doing your job! Exactly which world are you living in? The laws were created for that reason. If no one has told you we have a slight problem here on the Earth, called white supremacy! If you don't understand that point, everything else will only confuse you.
The white man may have "stolen" your women, but such a notion is irrelevent to me. I live in a society created by whites as do you, but that odesn't stop me from "protesting" injustice. It didn't stop the many great and honourable black men who went before me so why should it stop me? And yes I am going to tell white law makers that they are preventing me from doing my job. That the laws were created for that reason, makes me even more determined 2 tell them 2 change them.
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The problem is black men CANNOT protect their children from the biggest danger to children - their single mothers, and that's because the laws of our respective countries are such that women have absolute control over children. It has nothing to do with living a "boys" lifestyle it's about waking men up to the realities. Why is that men must take all the risks and suffer the entire hit when it goes wrong with women? I'd rather be a "boy" than a man with a babymama who won't let him see
F that shit.
The best protector of children are their fathers if people care about black children then they should fight for changes in the law to protect the father child relationship from interference by ANYONE including and especially mothers.
I believe that men cannot and will not be able to do for their children unless they challenge the laws that prevent them from doing so. Your position is to my mind an accomodationist one where we accept impossible obtacles as part and parcel of being a father. It is unrealistic to and grossly unfair expect men to find a way around vicious man made anti-father laws and womens abuse of those laws in order to have a r/shp with their own children.
Most men do not have the time or resources to combat the system on their own, which is why we need to deal with system by organising many men to demand fair treatment in it. That is a CAN DO ethic Sir. There is nothing heroic or "real man" about trying to fight a mammoth (the system) alone. It's very easy to lecture men about persisting despite the obstacles but such remarks are empty cliches which address nothing, because lack of trying is not the problem.
There are real problems to do with how the system disrupts the father child r/tsp that CAN ONLY be addresed by adressing the system, not by more man blaming nonsense which barracks men to simply "try harder". That has not worked - so we know was DOESN'T work. It's time to try something different and that's where men like me come in. If we really are on the same side then I see no reason for you to have a problem with what I'm proposing.
I believe my responsibilty to black children is to help create a FATHERFULL environment for them, I don't believe in "it takes a village" philosophies which are taken out of context and misapplied in the societies we live in.
The white man may have "stolen" your women, but such a notion is irrelevent to me. I live in a society created by whites as do you, but that odesn't stop me from "protesting" injustice. It didn't stop the many great and honourable black men who went before me so why should it stop me?
And yes I am going to tell white law makers that they are preventing me from doing my job. That the laws were created for that reason, makes me even more determined 2 tell them 2 change them.