Stonebutch, Studs, and the "Papi syndrome"

conversation about masculine identity in lesbian/queer culture.

Category:

Education

Tags:

• lesbian
• butch
• queer
• trangender
• studs

[goddessboi]

Thanks for watching go to you tube butch voices and vote for Charita!!!! and check out there other videos and upload your butch,stud ,aggressive perspectives!!!

butchlove!

[goddessboi]

Thanks for watching!!! If you know any one with a story about the above subject we would love to start a video diary project! We invite all ages, class, race,ETC especially the current generation to comment on this subject!!!

[PPJnet]

thanks for yet another great upload. for some reason your videos always make me think: "wait a minute... this is better than this or that book I read."

[goddessboi]

Thank you for checking it out!!!

peace

[DSPENCE1986]

st8 girls play studs for their money wacth out studs

[TheKnowledge4ya]

I would love to have a conversation with her..

She seems very cool

=)

[starmaiden26]

Iol I like the Papi or Daddy types, but I don't expect them to 'take care of me' I like having a job, so I can buy art supplies,books and clothing. If Daddy wants to spoil me every now and then? Cool. But spoiled doesn't have to mean designer jeans,(go to Salvation Army and thrift stores! I've seen my local stores sell hell of alot designer clothes! But spoiling could be a candlelit dinner in the living room, lights down low and soft music. Expand your mind!

[Not1OfUrFans]

She has an interesting story.

[HotButterOnToast]

What we need is to divorce the concept of strength from the concept of masculinity.

[ArWx]

awesome interview!

useful for people on all kinds of places on the masculine spectrum to think on.

or even just concerning roles and models and how we try to translate ourselves in these languages that sometimes are too tight for us.

cheers!

orfeo

[MainelyButch]

Awesome video! Favorited!

[LadyPhyll]

I really enjoyed watching this, I am a femme that finds this really interesting, the mind is very powerful in terms of how we ID ourselves.... It's all about being who you want tobe and being comfortable in your skin! As you said don't deny your womanhood - love it!

Love to you for lovey London.xxx

[whoiAm08]

wow I tried the saaame thing..I joined the military and I tried to be this masculine manly stud...it was so hard because I thought this was the only way a stud or an aggressive female could be. I could never let down my guard and I was stuck on this im in charge idea. My wife (4 yrs now legally) saw right through me lol now I don't try to fiit this idiotic mold.

[devokica]

I am glad I found this video-I am femme who loves Butches, and I always found it attractive and real when she/hy is able to be be her/hys self, and as you say-to recognize the soft sides and need to be equal-there is no reason for us to support heteronormative attitudes, hack, the mere existance of this dynamic is subversive for heteronormative.

Thank you for the video :)