Relationship Advice : How to Stop Stalking

If a person wants to stop stalking someone, they need to first admit that what they're doing is stalking. Learn how to respect someone else's boundaries with advice from a dating coach in this free video on relationship issues.

Expert: Donna Barnes
Contact: www.donnabarnes.com
Bio: Donna Barnes is a professional life coach, relationship expert, television host, author, columnist and producer, based in New York City.
Filmmaker: Paul Muller

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[Karmmelk66]

Thank you Donna.

[littlefirefly44]

Good vid. It's just the stalker I have been dealing with wouldn't care if anyone told him to stop stalking me. He wouldn't even listen to the Sergeant who warned him to stay away from me, so why would he listen to me? He definitely has a problem, is very delusional and I really don't think he will change his attitude or behaviour, or even just admit his problem. In his eyes he has done nothing wrong and it is everyone else who did wrong based on what he says.

[Kennedysirhandoswald]

i have a stalker that is so vile and disgusting that I want to strike back but have to deal with legally

[inachu]

@ftenzer stopping communication cold turkey can mean anything. She could have died or something but I say it is IMMATURE for communication to stop cold turkey. In my case I called the police on the woman who I had an intimate affair with after we had a wonderful relationship and she stop emailing and calling for what? Another man? I'm fine with that. New job relocatiing? I'm fine with that. this is why some woman have psychological issues.

[inachu]

Depends on the type of stalking: Criminal or good intentions intended?

Let's say a man and woman both adults start a relationship and they get intimate. So now the man is on cloud 9 and happy where he is in life being with the girl he loves and nothing bad happens but she stop returning calls. Mysterious yes. Should he stop calling thinking the worst may have happened to her? this happened to me and I called the police for her safety.

[crystalbratcher30]

@ftenzer that is so not true asshole

[pardonmygenie]

Remember that film with Mel Gibson.."What Women Want" he could hear their thoughts which revealed their true feelings...what a gift that would be!

If we could all do that then maybe unintentional 'stalking' done by guys, who simply want to spend time with someone they care a lot about...wouldn't be so prevalent.

[ftenzer]

Jack is not out to harm Jill or anyone else and has never threatened Jill or anyone else and yet 4 years after Jill asked Jack on that message board on the Internet to send her email, Jill no longer wants anything to do with Jack. What did Jack do wrong that Jill no longer wants anything to do with Jack? Why does Jill act this way? How could Jill accuse Jack of stalking her simply for worrying about her? My name is Fred Tenzer and my email address is rocket88_doowop@yahoo.com

[ftenzer]

Suppose, for example, a female person named Jill writes a message on a message board on the Internet asking a man named Jack to send her email, Jill states what her email address is on that message board, Jill knows that Jack is a man, Jack sends Jill email as she requested, Jill responds, Jill and Jack have email correspondence for at least a year. Please also read the second part of this message.

[tzeqin]

prep your Uzis, girls \m/