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I going thru and very bad divorce with 5 children involved. Been married 6 years to an emotionally abusive husband. I decided to leave him June 2008 after we were stationed in Hawaii. The children and I returned home for a visit. After being back home in Missouri for 2 weeks my husband return from Thailand, back to Hawaii. We had an agurement where I told him at that point I am not coming back to Hawaii. Shorty after the hotline reports came in over and over. Everyone of them was Mark, trying to make me and the childrens lives a living Hell! Call after call DFS came to the house. I tried to tell them what he was doing, he want me and the children to come home to Hawaii beggging, crying, apolgiesing over and over and I kept say No! So he got mad and started calling DFS on me making everything up. Now he is out of the army on Honable Dischange. Division Family Service have given him the children. Now living in the home the children and I did last summer. DFS had condemned the house in Jan 2009 because of water damage from the water heater. That got fixed. But now the bathroom has holes in the floor, water is leaking into my son's room, the toilets have not been clean in who knows how long, there is Flies everywhere, mice droppings under the counters, and so on and so on.
Right now I have no home and broken down car that can only fit 5 peolpe. I am a dump truck/concrete truck driver. All summer long I wouldn't get hours to work because of the rain or just no work. I had an apt but with no work no rent. Now I am just starting not one job but 3, but no car. I didnt get to see my kids this weekend because no house, and no car. Please someone help!!!! We need a lawyer just cant afford the best for this.

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[BMEphotography]

They have been w me since june 2010, but fri we were back n court, he has gotten a temp custody till oct. Now back n dec 10, my ex & his lawyer switched court dates w/o letting me or my lawyer know that's how he got custody then but never came to get them, I was ordered to pay child support as well. But this time there has been no child support due to either one, reason for it, my lawyer wants to see if he comes & gets them this time. They will be switching schools again.

[BMEphotography]

I know the children hate being there with him.  Tuesday April 13th the judge overruled the juvenile courts, and closed the case. DFS is still involed for another 90 days. Waiting for me to get a home for them. Which is very hard due to my income.

[maiahlynn]

are the children with you ( the mom ) now? I hope so

[starsabovememn]

@GoinBack2Naija where did that say anything bad about you? You want to know what I was talking about it wasn't all kinds of abuse it was only about how a person can find themselves in the type of relationship this video was about. Back to the abuse thing I was always the outsider and treated bad. I was molested at the age of 15 raped at 16 had a baby at 17. I got married at 20 had a child at 21 and another at 24. My husband stormed out of the delivery room because it was a baby girl not a boy

[starsabovememn]

@GoinBack2Naija I was trying to share with you how it happens that someone gets into the position she is in. You It isn't blindness or stupidity. If you have never had to go through it you are lucky! It is a slow progression of brain washing. You loose yourself. In some cases such as mine the are other thing like depression that play into this. The abuser uses the children to control you. Yes life is about choices but sometimes choices are made thinking you have all the info

[starsabovememn]

@GoinBack2Naija I never said anything about your abuse. I am could tell you the story of my life because I was that kid that was bullied you so didn't get what i was saying.

[starsabovememn]

@GoinBack2Naija It isn't blindness or stupidity. If you have never had to go through it you are lucky! It is a slow progression of brain washing. You loose yourself. In some cases such as mine the are other thing like depression that play into this. The abuser uses the children to control you. Yes life is about choices but sometimes choices are made thinking you have all the info I pray you never have to go through this

[starsabovememn]

I so get this you have to jump through hopes while he does nothing. Everything you do or say is picked apart. If you point out bruises or any other sign of abuse it is turned in to you trying to alienating them from the father. They want you to have a home in their county or they will keep your kids from you. If you are like me everything seemed great a first and he changed it was slow and little but your life became hell. Keep your head up and I pray things work out for you

[fuzzyone91]

if he is physically abusing them you need them to get out of that inviroment do they have any bruises get a lawyer and fight to get them back email me if you need somebody to talk to

[donna031297]

cps is an overpowered tyrant that needs to be brought down! I'm going through it too. I used to think that people who had their children must've done something terribly wrong. I now regret EVER thinking that....I hope and pray for you and your babies. Do not give up, your babies are counting on you.