Interpersonal Relationships : Overcoming Insecurities in Relationships

The best possible way to dissolve insecurity in a relationship is to approach it with your significant other. Overcome insecurities with tips from an author of a book on dating in this free video on interpersonal relationships.

Expert: Dr. Paul Vehorn
Contact: www.AskDoctorPaul.com
Bio: Dr. Paul Vehorn has been a nationwide talk show host on Sun Radio Network and IRN.com, and he has a Ph.D. in behavioral psychology.
Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz

Category:

Howto & Style

Tags:

• relationships
• dating
• interpersonal relationships

[sailxonxmusic]

The point is.. I am TOO insecure to even be in a relationship. I feel too uncomfortable with the way I look to get close to a guy.. And it's not like I don't get any attention, because I actually get a lot. But people just don't understand how insecure I am..

[lawshorizon]

I wonder if some girls try to compensate for their insecurities by wearing too much make-up, dying their hair bleech-blond, or overdressing?

[adnanaeroadnan]

@BrandonColon Hey Brandon, I think what you suffer from is low self-esteem, and your feeling of fear/insecurity is a symptom of that. Acquiring self-esteem (love for and acceptance of oneself) is actually much harder than it might sound, which is why it requires patience and perseverance. Believe me when i tell you, once you have acquired self-esteem, all your insecurities would disappear, and then you can decide whether you want to stay with your girlfriend or deem her unworthy of yourself.

[breakingthisdown]

@BrandonColon Hun, what are you doing to make things change for you?

[BrandonColon]

My girl friend of three years had sex with my best friend on a break in the beggining of a relationship. I havent been able to forgive her. I love her. I want her. but i have visions all day long years later. I get scared to wake up cause my day is filled with horrible visions. Ive tried breaking it off a million times but always bring her back because of my insecurities. Its disgusting and I want to be better. Im losing hope. seriously.

[iusedtoslaymonsters]

@omgitsspanky yeah. same thing happens a lot. when i first go out with someone im as cool as fuck. then i let it slip AHHHH! we broke up last week anyway. Just the beginning to the end i guess. good luck mate.

[omgitsspanky]

@iusedtoslaymonsters iv been havin that exact same issue lately

[iusedtoslaymonsters]

i have tried to speak to my girlfriend about my insecurities but it is just annoying her. she is saying that i need to trust her and stop asking her because it is making her upset.

[yourgonnawantmeback]

This is the best vid I'd love to talk to this man ge cud sort my life out!

[orangepeelpeel]

this is the best piece of wisdom "we criticize in others what we most fear in ourselves"