should i tell people i am a Transgender girl when i make new friends??

REALLY?

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[MrPicathartes]

Hi Han. Just some thoughts. First, you ARE a woman ( the shape of your genitals shouldn't determine your life ) Second, the only restrictions to telling / not telling someone you are trasitional should be if you would put yourself in danger by doing so. If you feel a new friend could handle the truth then, by all means tell them, be proud. The world is full of adults who behave like adults but, sadly, there are those who don't. Just be careful, and enjoy your life. XXX

[chrishan0822]

@MrPicathartes Thank you for your comment , yes i dont want people make my issues.. so i really dont tell people expect going on dates.~ , well for having some friends, i think i should tell who i am , if i want to get closer with my new friends.. but i still worry ..sometimes.

[realplayngod]

damn it fatfingerd the rest .Your a girl now your more girl than guy now. You know in you heart if you can tell certain people about your back ground. but just to tell a stranger that you might encounter say employer its no ones business except you own.Your a very attractive girl, you also seem intelligent you'll be able feel if its the right decision to tell people about you.

[chrishan0822]

@realplayngod oppssyyyyy , i made a mistake i deleted your comment,..:(( i am so sorry.... i just , wnated to delete my comment and wirte again .. but i deleted your comments ah.... i am so sorry :(((((((((((((((((((( dont missunderstand!! :( anyway thank you for your comments , well i am really scared of straight guys actually even making friends ... but i can do that!! because i am HAN!! thank you for your comments and sorry for deleting your first comment !! :(( huggssss

[crunchny]

I am a straight guy in nyc I have transgender friends. You should be who you are so don't hide it . If someone meets you they must like you for your true self. I'm sure you are great to be around

[chrishan0822]

@crunchny yes thats ture , i meant welll trusting is very important for realationship i think (both of friendship or love realationship ) so i wont hide myself .~ so if they run away from me ~ i understand ~ and if they want to be my friends !~ very happy to be their good friends!! hehe :)))))))))))) i dont expect everyone understand me . that is a rule of nature ,, there is always sunny side and dark side together ~ :)

[yurikomuro]

@dontlookatmeokay So according to that logic, if genitalia determines one's gender, assuming you are a straight male, consider the following scenario: You are trapped on an island with Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie. Here's the catch 22, Brad Pitt has a vagina (FTM), and Angelina Jolie (MTF) has a penis. Who would you have sex with?

[MrPicathartes]

@dontlookatmeokay We all start out as female ( in utero ). The fact that one foetus develops a clitoris and vagina and another goes on to develop a penis is purely down to genetics. Psychologically this doesn't mean that you are constrained by this ( to think that would be to be constricted by the basest form of determinism) TS's are only condemed to follow the strictures of their birth-form by man-made laws and predudice, not in reality.

[probounderxxx]

Hi Han. I'd rly like a tutorial for make up and haircut tutorial :| so they dont look like guy hairs or maybe you use wigs ?

[thesabrinahill]

I would say no. But really it should be on a case by case basis and how you feel about it, in each situation.

[realplayngod]

aww princess no problem :-) :-) :-) also what the problem with many guys that don't understand or know of tgs they ASSume they are strange.But you're NoT. They are very immature most guys maybe look for older guys or friends in general who would be more understanding or knowledgeable about Special girls.:-) you'll find the right group of friends who will be more understanding to you and your feelings. and not play on your emotions Be well princess...Han :-) :-) :-) Your eyes are so captivat

[dontlookatmeokay]

@MrPicathartes If someone has a penis, they are a man, not a woman. Now, a man can have the thoughts, perception, desires etc. of a woman, but people born with a penis are male and people born with a vagina are female.

[MrPicathartes]

@chrishan0822 I think you have got the balance just about right. Worrying can't be helped :-( but try not to let it get in the way of trying to live your life as you want to. XXX