Should you tell her "I like you?" www.practicalhappiness.com

You started dating a woman you really like. Should you tell her that you like her?
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[playingAround81]

Hi arkady

I know why you should not tell a woman that you like her too early. But lets say you are on a second date with her, and you are dancing, and you just tell her that you think she is very beautiful. Anything wrong with that?

[arkady39]

I see no good purpose that it will achieve.

[Komaoala]

You always end every video with, "Thank You" but really, we should thank YOU instead for making these top notch dating wisdoms. I salute you for your generous effort in creating these videos.

[arkady39]

Thanks!!! :)

[wth357]

i really liked a girl in my class and we know each other for more than 1 year, is it time to tell her??

[arkady39]

Yes it is. In fact, it was time to tell her about 11 months, 3 weeks ago, but it still might be not too late.

[sid6911]

hahah this is so true.

thats wat i did wrong and she left me for another guy..

fucking bitch..lol

[AvaiLCompetitive]

ahaha dude women are stupid they fall for the wrong guys and deserve to be hurt the friend is always the dickhead who misses out

[nasaguy]

Good advice - I wish I'd known it back in July LOL. I met probably the most incredible person I will EVER meet, and we were getting along well. Then I think I torpedoed any chance with her by using those exact words too soon. :(

[proIMI]

gili71 every one wants sex. Both girl and boys. Some people like random sex, other like to be committed. The most important thing is that you find a like minded person on the subject.

Girls and boy often isn't as similar that we would like to think, but we arn't allways that different that some people often like to portay. Anyways. Waiting for the right timing is important for everything. And one should just understand when that is.. by feeling the communication

[CasualMaggot]

I was forced to say these things, and now i'm in a bit of an awkward situation.. she kept asking me what i wanted of her, so i told her i wanted to be her boyfriend... now what should i do? i can't really pretend like i am her boyfriend.. all she said yes to was to give me a chance.. but what do i do with that chance? we're seeing eachother in 2 weeks if all goes well, but in the meantime i need to keep her interest... it just feels like i did all the mistakes i could have done. also, we did it.

[MrCanuck]

[...cont] I told her that I liked her (when I should've just kissed her). Guess what. Two weeks later, she dumped me. Cold hard dump. I didn't do anything to her. Classic break up speach that was "hope we can still be friends, blah blah blah".

She block/deleted me on MSN and even stopped responding to my Hellos in social situations!

Guys, NEVER tell a girl you like her, EVER. It kills the mystery and it completely gives away your power that initially got her attracted in the first place

[MrCanuck]

[...cont] So anyways, after going all the way a few times. I ended up admitting to her that I really like her. It was like one of those magic tricks that you see on TV: She disappeared ! She stopped calling, went cold on MSN, appeared offline more and more often, etc.

Next girl was even more crazy about me. She told me to my face that she liked me and had feelings for me. She even said she won't go look for a boy because it's me she likes. So me, not learning from my mistakes,... [cont...]

[MrCanuck]

Too early? Dude, never EVER EVER EVER EVER tell a girl that you like her. I've been on and off with this girl last year for about 2 years. We were really close then went our seperate way then met again. She was always attracted to me. One day we kissed and it was officially a romantic interaction. We'd slowly escalate physically week after week and she'd ask me how I feel. I'd always just tease her. She knew I was crazy about her but I never said anything. She was also crazy about me [cont...]

[armandinonono]

Hey Arkady39,

You said "you can do everything that couples do without putting labels on it too early and too prematurely." So, for example, would that include bringing her a single red rose without telling her "I love you," or the such?

Thanks for your advice

[ranma187]

what if you just simply state "I like you" from a standpoint of non neediness. you don't have to say "i'm in love with you blah blah blah". but just simply saying in the right moment. "Hey, i like you"