Inner Confidence "Nice Guy" Drill

The purpose of this exercise was to see how well I reacted to a woman's fury. As you can see, I had suffered from the "nice guy" syndrome. Symptoms include not standing up for what I believe in, not defending myself, being pushed and walked over, unable to get angry, etc.

Some of the ways I poorly responded was through constant smiling, submissive eye contact, head bobbing, and nervous ticks and shifting around. My body language was also horrible as I had completely collapsed in defeat. The part of the video where it hurt the most was from 3:21 - 3:51.

This video was recorded on 3/10/09. And since then, I'm happy to say that Inner Confidence has dramatically helped me cultivate my masculinity and become a more attractive man who can better handle these situations. For more information, visit http://innerconfidence.com

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[Nitepup]

Please make a part two to this video- it be interesting to see if u stepped up your game since then dont u think? See if your more man'ly now ;) Please use the same woman if u do, she had u hopping like a scared rabbit but u could show her & us how to handle women better

[cspotrn]

@Nitepup Thanks for commenting! :) Unfortunately i haven't done the exercise since then, but i recently filmed some infield footage last week! 2 years time difference! Go to youtube user "afcadamlondon" and it's the "Direct Game Live infield video with Close - Must See!" video.

[thejtrax]

damn this is so helpful thank you lol she was mean because she wanted him to be a MAN not a boy

[cspotrn]

@thejtrax You got it! :) That was the purpose of the exercise - see how I could handle the fierceness of a woman!

[superbartman]

what a bitch, how dare this black nigger diss an asian guy, makes us asians look bad, we asians are strong people who can stand up for ourselves, dumbass americans just don't understand our culture

[cspotrn]

@superbartman It's OK bro. It was just an exercise :) I know her and she's actually a very sweet girl (and a great actor!) :D The exercise was just part of a coaching program I was involved in. No real hate! Was just a bunch of tough love!

[moneyoverbirds]

niceguy sydrome yea he is trying to hard females want the badguy the one that takes control.

[AtlantiXYL]

that is so effective, those type of guy needs to go to somewhere at least 2-4 years for hardcore physical and mental training. eventually they will not be like that.

[finsoto]

oh yea i would have fun with this chick, i love the shit test

[finsoto]

shes easy, she doesnt need a nice guy

[JXZjeremy]

I'm a nice guy. But I sure wouldn't take that shit. I'm pretty sure I tell her is she so insecure of herself she has to attack someone else's insecurity? I'd then say: Grow a hear bitch. And Walk off.

[thejtrax]

@cspotrn thank you (: So what are some tips i could use in the future on handling a girls shit tests?