Why Women Date Bad Boys And Marry Nice Guys

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Update Response 2011
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There are a couple of things that I want to clarify. There are no real ultra nice guys and no real bad boys. Only in that some people are more inclined to display characteristics of one more dominantly than the other. Some guys are more inclined to be more passive in their relationships and others take one more of a leadership role.

Additionally there is also a broad spectrum which guys can fall in-between this nice vs. bad boy range. For example there have been many nice guys who display characteristics such as assertiveness, leadership and confidence at times. Just like there are "bad boys" who display characteristics of understanding, empathy and compassion at times.

The main subconscious driving force for women, is their urge to feel protected. They need to feel safe. Safe from outside threats. Safe from threats to sense of self. Safe from threats from other environmental and situational factors.

Nice and bad boys, both provide this level of security and protection in a number of different ways. The nice provider type, provides this sense of security through stability, certainty and being a source which a woman feels she can count on. The bad boy provides this sense of protection through his assertiveness, confidence and leadership skills. She is drawn to his strength in a different way.

With that said a guy displaying characteristics more inclined to the nice provider type can develop skills and characteristics that mimic more bad boy qualities. This includes, challenging her, teasing her, accessing his presence and masculinity which will help to drawn out her femininity. The reason why some long term relationships can become stale, is because there is no polarity. No mixture of energies of the masculine and the feminine. When each partner learns to access their natural energy they can bring that dance of energies back to the relationship to create that spark. In a woman feels this sense of attraction and spark with her nice man, then she will not feel compelled or drawn to that bad boy energy, because she is getting a combination of both from her current partner."

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I know its hard to hear that women are really attracted to "Bad Boys" and ignore the "Nice Guys".

Its royally sucks!

Now we could all get angry and frustrated about and complain about how women are so confusing, really stupid and just way too complicated.

But really, is that going to help you get more women, to successfully interact with women and get them to be attracted to you, to talk to you, to give you their number?

If you guys are ready and willing, there is a whole dating game that is being played out there, and its about time that you learn the rules!

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[josh19852008]

@MissViolet241 You may be one of the VERY FEW. I do not know you though. I do not even care if you were the worst person in the world to others. I still would not judge you until you gave me a good reason to. I am tired though of women telling men how to be men but can not be respectable women! Now most of the people who date bad guys ALSO MARRY THEM! Yes there are some bad men out there but it is the women who have truely messed up the world of dating.

[Thetrackrecords]

Thank God I'm single.

[jab7168]

@wuzbornready0k That's why now as a nice guy with a ton of money, I will never get married...........Yeah, you had your fun and now it's time for old relieable. I don't htink so....and I think guys are wising up to this BS.

[MissJessyeNorman]

@axtophen Haha, I understand what you mean. =) After I read your reply I realized my mistake. What I meant to say is that I care that my spouse has a passion and pursues it, regardless of whether or not it's how he earns a living.

If his job is his passion, then YES, I would need him to earn at least a modest income through it (at least eventually, if he was studying first).

If his job isn't his passion, and he pursues his passion in his free time, then I don't care if it makes money.

=)

[axtophen]

@MissJessyeNorman I so agree with you except for one point: "Even if it would never bring in any money".. NEVER? wouldn't survival be easier if he was being financially rewarded  as well, dear?

[TheSheepGang]

whats your zodiac sign?

[MissJessyeNorman]

@MISSIONCOGNITION ...I just want to know that he finds joy in self development, regardless of whether his passion is bird-watching, painting, writing, etc. At the end of the day, I want to hear all his tales of drudgery, bliss, and everything in between.

Then I know he has the internal resources to cope with anything we face. Even if one or both of us becomes disabled or seriously ill; or God forbid, one of our children does. I want someone who's in it for the long haul, just like me... =)