Whats wrong with me?

Is there something wrong with me?

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[MissLeLe25]

In some situations, the boys remind mothers so much of the absent fathers that they subconciously push them away. I guarantee the reason has nothing to do with something you've done wrong or even the fact that your gay; you said she's been this way since you were little so that disqualifies being gay. Just have a honest talk with her and explain how you feel, even if she doesn't have an answer for you it may open her eyes to the problem and force her to look within herself. Good luck, sweetie

[attcenter]

She may not have said it but she has a problem with you being gay she feels like its something she did or did not do when you were growing up I went threw the same thing but I just flat out asked my mom what was wrong

[theslabbxxx]

Im Gay. My mom deep down isnt accepting of who I am. We had issues before my coming out. This just added fuel to an already huge fire. Now that Im much older, I realize that some parents have their own vision of who their kids should be. A fantasy of how they see their kids future. When you take that away from them, some parents cant deal with it. They think of the grandkids they will never have or the Sunday dinners that will never be. They don't realize that being gay is no different.

[shondiholiness]

IM SURE SHE LOVES YOU. JUST ASK HER JUST THAT, SAY EXACTLY HOW U FEEL, AND WHEN I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO, I JUST PRAY! JESUS HEARS YOU

[Ganajah]

CONT...if it's anything like mine. It's probably her problem and not yours. It's hard for our parents to find out new things about us that is different from the norm. She probably doesn't know how to act or present herself towards you because your different. You just got to do it man. Go visit her when you know she aint busy and then take her out to lunch or dinner and just have a one-on-one time with her. Just be honest about it. Ask her how you can have a closer relationship with her.

[Ganajah]

Where can I find niggas like you man? Come to Hawaii!! There is nothing wrong with you man. Sometimes life isn't fair. It could be that your mom doesn't know how to handle herself around you. Even if she does know your gay, that doesn't mean she's 100% "on board".

This is the reason why teenagers dont come out until after they move out of the house. Because they're afraid they would be disowned by their families.

Its hard man, but you need to tell her that. Ask her how it makes her feel?

[spindoctorone1]

Try going to church, and searching for the LORD and Pray!!!

[SirenSwallows93]

Doll, don't sweat it. It's just something that people have to get used to. My mom was the same way; at times she still is. It will get better, just talk about it, dont make it dramatic. Just ask. Much luv.....Siren

[auquaboi]

it might just take some time for her to come around my mom took time but still she somtimes feel awkward , so i say it takes time

[scorpiouknow]

(2) Your mom has some stuff she's dealing with that really has little to do with you, if you follow me. But thats mom's stuff, not yours. Thats not to be selfish or careless but to say she is an individual who has some things and so are you. And it's not fare that you get the brunt of it but that what happens when we live and love. Your mom may come around and get through this thing or maybe not, but she needs your help; don't give up man, and don't loose the faith. Peace.

[mizfield]

i am soooooooo loving your comfort set!!! its gorgeous!!!!!

[scorpiouknow]

(1) Our parents especially our moms, have great expectations of us, along with other people as well. What we have to come to is, and this is a philosophy of a friend of mine, "You can't judge yourself by someone else's measuring stick". So in other words, You are your unique self and not a mistake by any means, and I do mean any means whatsoever. 99% of what people seem to have problems about in other individuals is 100% their opinion and has nothing to do with you.