16 The Homeschooling Buzz - Andrew Pudewa - Homeschool Dad and Director of the IEW - 2/5
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Then starts the we need to do Latin, French, play the french horn, do nature study everyday, homeschool 6hrs a day and go do all these other things so we can be just like so and so or else we are not doing it right. You look over at your kids who are playing around with Lego's and army men while you are trying to read aloud your history lesson, he only did a half a math worksheet and you wonder how will I ever get him into college
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magazine or have a friend in a COOP who uses the same homeschool method as you yet you look at there child(who might not even be the same age as your child) and you see how they are covering all these subjects, playing the violin and piano, volunteering at the food pantry, acing the SAT's and can write a college level thesis and you start to go into heart palpitations
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Having a educational philosophy or method of homeschooling is a positive thing it gives some basic curriculum guidelines to follow usually even a year by year break down. That is great. Usually the problem comes in when you stop looking at the philosophy as just a set of guidelines and start placing it on a pedestal of must do must follow rigid rules.I think for some parents this starts when we fall victim to "Comparing our Children to Others". You might read an article in a homeschool
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I blogged about this recently:
For some of us homeschoolers we are totally engulfed with a educational philosophy or method rather that be Classical, Charlotte Mason, Montessori, Unit Study, Unschooling, etc... I started out homeschooling with a strictly academic vision in mind that eventually evolved into something much more in the end but I think its typical for some parents to start out with purely an academic goal in mind.
You make some awesome points. I wish more families would examine where they want their family to be instead of trying to keep up with the Jones' . I like Mr. Pudewa's comments about having a lot of kids just to get this family thing right.
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