2010 Vlog 2- DD and GG Argument

Dmitry and I discussing our agreement, an argument that escalated to something more and what we realized.

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[angel3569]

Thanx for sharing :)

[MarlenVargasDelRazo]

@DmitryDenikin cool -

[DmitryDenikin]

@MarlenVargasDelRazo hey folks, thanks for watching. Yeah we don't hold much more in as we used to. Doesn't make any sense to. As uncomfortable as a point may be, it will be out, else it will eat away from within (and that would be Self Dishonest, not to mention, quite annoying). As we go with the long distance relationship/agreement, we're learning more and more on who we are as 1 & = and keeping each other in check as not to repeat any cycles of programming. -Dmitry.

[MarlenVargasDelRazo]

Hi - thanks for sharing

I went through the same point 'Do I have the right to tell him' ...- that single hesitation was an indication of myself not being completely standing as a point of equality, but wanting to preserve a relationship where 'everything is fine and where i feared speaking out 'in the moment' to not create any conflict -

Cool yes, not allowing a point to escalate, very important - self direction having no deviation - thanks for sharing

[JoeKouFullCircle]

cool guys. one thing i would add is to NEVER TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY. shit WILL come up to be faced, and that is part of the agreement. any judgment is judgment of self only.

[clk211bu]

Excellent, no vacations from process. Thanks you two for sharing! Something that assists me and Randy is realising that whatever we are facing with each other we are facing within self. It gives the argument a whole new perspective :) - Also, remember what Talamon's Resonances said: What you live out in your physical, is the experience of you - describe the Physical Movements and then, from there you'll be able to see what was the experience inside yourself.

[LLCraver]

'there is no taking a vacation from the process...you have to constantly be disciplined...you're either in or out...there's no in between'

yup, i am working with this point as well - consistency = self-trust, if I can't trust myself to be consistent, then what am i standing for?

thanks for sharing your agreement process...