Your job is minding your own business

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LOL this is in response to someone who just felt the need to comment on my profile today because she couldn't understand why fat people say that people should love and accept themselves when they themselves are fat and are "abusing their bodies". This is my video response to her because clearly she wasn't getting what I was saying with the written word.

It's not YOUR job to change anyone's opinion of you because you are fat. Furthermore, just because we have the freedom of speech and the right to our opinions does not mean that we should spend our lives going around giving people a piece of our minds.

It is not my responsibility to change anything about me to please someone else. If you expect other people to change so that you can be happy, well you are going to find yourself a very disappointed person throughout your life. The only person ANYONE is responsible for changing is themselves. Whether that people how they think about themselves, or other people or any subject in life that brings them something they don't want.

What I do suggest is stop wasting your time focusing on things that you don't like. There are LOTS of things in the world that I don't like, the difference between you and me is that I don't give my time, energy or attention to those things. If there are people I disagree with, I don't listen to, watch, or interact with them. They are not relevant to my life. You can say something until your are blue in the face to try and educate or change someone's beliefs but, if people cannot grasp what you are saying it is because they have not expanded past what they can accept or are willing to understand. That is only something they can do for themselves by working on themselves. Here is a perfect quote that I received today in one of my newsletters...


You are perceptual beings with different vantage points and -- it does not matter how much information is given -- you cannot see beyond the vibrational limits of where you are standing. You cannot live or see or experience outside of your own individual beliefs.

--- Abraham

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[moniquesanhueza]

Because of the hormones.Also birth control and depo. Tyroid controls metabolism and last time i checked everyone has one. Depends your body. Food has a part of it but its a personal. But dont sit here and say i eat cookies and stuff.. lol Im a vegetarian no cheeseburgers here.. loosing weight is personal. Well said video. And to the ingnorant girl fat people are here to stay. Love dont hate because with your harsh words your the disgusting one.

[itsaplussizeworldbbw]

@moniquesanhueza There are all kinds of things that make it a life struggle for some people. :-)

[xCodDaily]

Everybody who like's this woman, is pathetic, being fat is disgusting, why would you choose to be fat?, your wrong, a normal human being is slim, being fat is a bad thing, you die much quicker 90% of huge fat people have diabete's, lose weight, i would never change my mind your right, instead of eating more cookie's etc, lose weight, and they don't choose to be 700ib's who the hell want's to be 700 Ibs. WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU WANT TO BE FAT!, GROW UP.

[itsaplussizeworldbbw]

@xCodDaily seriously, shut up.

[brokeanddrive]

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[itsaplussizeworldbbw]

@brokeanddrive I love it when you get so full of rage and anger that you feel it's necessary to boost my comment count by 4 comments. LOLOLOLOL thanks so much!!

[rileyzoe1]

You have beautiful skin! You are very pretty & sweet. I just came across your videos & I have fallen in love with you:) You speak your mind & you are not ashamed to do it. I love that!! I am not a plus size woman but I love watching you & listening to you:) Keep the great videos coming sweetie!!

[moniquesanhueza]

Nicole you rock.. i am a new sub. I have say you are very beautiful inside and out hope to see new vids soon.

[moniquesanhueza]

Omg this girl is ingnorant. I personally think this girl needs to realize all people comes in all shapes and sizes and as a MA skinny people can have diabetes and thyroid problems to promote weight gain. I personally suffer from hypo thyroidism and i got diganose when i was 12years old I was a pretty fit person until my senior year in high school when i hurt my ankle in my dance class. I was a dancer and soccer player. And somehow i got mis diagnosed with and got off the pill. I ballooned bec

[proanafurimmer123]

i like you. you're pretty awesome!! go girl!!

[qddevine]

nice video. no one likes being verbally beaten into submission by folks who have all the answers...even if they are right. plus, it's not a very effective way of trying to change someone. how u feel about yourself is so important! having your well being is centered around others opinions of you is stressful! when u truly love yourself, nasty comments, a cheating boyfriend, or a dirty look won't fill you with self doubt for the next 10 years. (off subject: love your eyes, they're beautiful!)

[Zanozka]

you sound so much like sushicatny :)

[torresstr8]

we're all born with egual rights but we are not all equal. Our achievements ( not necessarily financial) make some people greater and some lesser.