The rejection of "you're too nice of a guy" - a prospective (part 2)

The second part of my video about relationships and 'nice guy' stuff. I just felt like ranting about this. Relationships and finding that right person is difficult and both men and women have issues. Leave a comment if you like.

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[Sahbisun]

I remember learning about women being attracted to what they are most familiar with. If a woman has an absent father she will be attracted to men that are not emotionally available. If her father was abusive, she will fall for the abusive male. Because she identify with this behavior most. I also learned that women pick the bad guy in the belief that she can correct what is wrong within herself...via through the bad boy. It's almost like a subcon addiction to destruction and self evaluation.

[lanuwame]

@Sahbisun Those are good valid notions - but it goes even beyond that I believe. As a society, we have told women that it is ok for men to love sex, looks and money and its all good. If women like such vices, they are referred to as whores, shallow and golddiggers. Many women have lied to themselves about what they really want in a man and use the "no nice guys" excuse to justify real desires for craving men they know society frowns upon. The theories on this subject are endless

[JGvisions]

@AriesBrother78 the basic or primal part is the concept of like attracts like which to us in our primal minds means collective survival.

[JGvisions]

@AriesBrother78 the urge to connect with someone of like interest is the common base principle in all this because fundamentally we connect with people of like minds because we know on a primal level that us working together to survive is what its based on. Your focusing on the external representation (I.E. Us hooking up to hunt for food vs us hanging out at a comic book convention because we both like comics)

[AriesBrother78]

@JGvisions, Primal means basic. If with both have an interest in the fine arts and that's makes us friends or a "flock", this is not an example of primal. If we both are hungry and need food so we band together to find food would be a better example of primal.

[JGvisions]

@AriesBrother78 umm its the same thing just on a different level. and all the reasons we "flock" together with each other is based on that same primal instinct.

[AriesBrother78]

@JGvisions, I said flocks in the "sense" of animals. We humans hang out or "flock" with each other according to common interest,social backgrounds,age etc. Animals DO NOT flock or pack with each in same manner. They don't operate on that level of thinking and interacting. They are much more "primal" in their interactions including their decisions on who's "alpha" within their group.

[JGvisions]

@AriesBrother78 also we do travel around in flocks or groups. you have freinds right? that you chill with and hang out with and interact with and help each other out with stuff right? thats what packs, flocks, ect are. they are just different names for what we call social circles. and i also agree that we interact on a hire level than animals but the structure by which those highers are built upon the same fundamental principles found in the animal kingdom.

[JGvisions]

@AriesBrother78 agreed, you can change those bad qualities to become an alpha but the issue the video is talking about (or what we are getting at,lol) is our natural state do to our experiences and our human natures in which we fall into the natural state of alpha male Hierarchy.. there will always be a group where there will be some guy who is the alpha or a group of alphas in a given group but even in that group there will be an an alpha amoung alphas. its just how it is.

[AriesBrother78]

@JGvisions, Alpha Males are according to the males in the "group". Which gives all Men the chance in one way or another to be "alpha" depending on the circumstances. We ARE NOT ANIMALS. We do not travel in flocks in their sense. If you don't fit in somewhere you can change things about yourself to make yourself more "Alpha" or attractive. Wearing certain clothes,Working out,learning to tell women what they want to hear! We interact on a much higher level than animals Sir!

[JGvisions]

@AriesBrother78 you seem to think in extremes. nothing exist in a vacume where there are no exceptions. but its a general concept. the alpha males get the most females and on top of that the females will generally flock towards those alpha males. the women or females who do not appeal to the alpha males reluctantly will fall back to being available to the beta males in the group. its a first come first serve sort of thing. i mean do you know of any other reason why the women act this way?

[AriesBrother78]

@JGvisions, um that does not mean they get ALL of the females and the other males go pussy less...thanx try again