Master Hook on Safety in BDSM - part #1

Safety is something that I feel is overlooked a lot when people get ready to play. I am doing 3 videos about safety. The First will be to the Dominants for the most part, the submissives should also know this stuff as well. The 2ed is for the submissives but I also have a strong word for all the Dominants as well.

This Video is what I feel about safety in play, ok I start off with the simple stuff about safety scissors. But for me the thing that is most useful and underused part of any safety plan is something you don't need to buy, it's your eyes, ears and brain. I go over a little bit of that here. Hope it helps.

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A place to start to get a pair safety scissors, they are all over the web and you can also get them at most drug stores.

http://www.allheart.com/bandage-scissors.html

This is good to read about safety

http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdsafety.html

http://www.love-shop.biz/bdsm-safety.html

Subspace

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Subspace_%28BDSM%29

SAMs

http://lauragoodwin.org/sam.htm

Safe, sane and consensual

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safe%2C_Sane_and_Consensual


other good stuff to read.

Scene (BDSM)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scene_%28BDSM%29

Negotiation (BDSM)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negotiation_%28BDSM%29

Limits (BDSM)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limits_%28BDSM%29

Safeword

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safeword

be well and safe

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[CDreams]

Kitty!!

Sorry, that was absolutley distracting. Thnx for posting though

[masterhook]

I love my cat, and it's fun when they want my attention when I make this stuff.

[C0ldSt33l]

Exactly! with that in mind can you trust your eyes? I have known women to go into subspace 30 seconds into a scene and I have known girls who can take a 45 min caneing and just barely roll into deep breathing. The Idea is without knowing the girl how do you know what to look for. I consider it to dangerous so I only play with those I know well.

[masterhook]

you need to know your self and you need to know your girl. even if she is new to you, you need to take time to see how she will act with small stuff at the start of play and get a base line. but also things happen, and you need to be ready for that. I will cover that is part 3.

[masterhook]

but subspace is a subjective thing. Its just like getting high. each person will have there own trip.

[teenofmyspace]

im a new master 2 the lifestyle, thanks for the info.

[6Memento6Mori6]

I've been interested in BDSM for a while now..I'm trying to learn more..btw I'm a sub..but I've been trying to think of more creative ways to play around and different objects ect..I'm trying to think of something that can cause alot of pain and pleasure at the same time..

[requiemkitty]

Awesome! Very very good

[Devel94]

i like the cat to ^^

[0xBriBrutalx0]

I was paying attention but I was also being distracted by the cat! lol

[luckylucy114]

like the cat

[masterhook]

thank you for this, I have sent you a email with some info but I am going to do a vid with some bondage ideas. Thank you for your comment, be well and safe.