The L Word 410 - Control Issues

The L Word S4 ep10 - Little Boy Blue

Jodie confronts Bette about her control issues

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• TLW
• 410
• Bette
• Jodie

[cloverleaf108]

This scene just shows how uncompatible Jodi is with Bette, both are too headstrong. There was no need for Jodi to scream at Bette. If it were Tina, she would have a more calming effect on Bette, she'll tell Bette the hard truths but in an accepting, non-judgemental, constructive way (we saw this in S1/S2). That's why they belong with each other.

[SQtelecaster]

fuck jodie. bette and tina are made for each other. i really hope they will be back togheter in season 5. jennifer beals is beatiful!!

[PrincessPeach777]

WHY is everyone so judgemental towards Jodi? This revolves around being a DEAF person. My BROTHER is deaf, I know very well how their life is. MANY of you don't know how deaf people live, and how they prefer things, and they can become very frustrated with "hearing" people, because sometime they make them feel like their own little race.

The only one here most of you should be able to relate to is Bette, you can't judge Jodi.

[rafalugo24]

I was just as wrong as her and I'm proud and ,as contradictorilly as it sounds, humble enough to aknowledge that. When one doesn't know what to interprete means, one ends up filtering information and that my friends, manipulates communication even if you mean well. That's why Jodi sais that if she wanted an interpreter she would have brought tom. I know bette meant well but she was just wrong. Jodi should have taken that into consideration as well and educate her rather than yell at her.

[rafalugo24]

Bette is half the time aware of how her acts affect others around her and Jodi is a very observing and independent individual who doesn't take her deafness as a limitation but rather her way of being and identity as a human. Everyone has to struggle to take a place in life and ignorants make it harder for some. It is ALWAYS best that hearing people be educated about the deaf world before getting into a relationship with a deaf person because out of ignorance we can hurt them and get ourselves.

[rafalugo24]

When Ignorance and "uneducated reason" come in through the door, love abd feelings go out through the window. I've been there, done that, and I saw my past self in bette.

[Soulkiss89]

no jodie is someone who is on the same level like bette. she´s autonomous like bette, she´s is someone who strike bak to bette and is not in agreement with everything. bette want to control everything, but she can´t control jodie. and that´s something bette can´t handle. jodi is stronger than tina.

[69tibette]

Never liked Jodi.Seemed like she always wanted Bette to chase after her.Bette should have dumped her after their first date.Jodi was an arrogant asshole

[SoberStones]

Jodi is right - Bette tries to control everything and loves up tina because she is submisive

[WaKeDnBaKeD]

I don't care for Jodi, but I think she was right. The Bette of old, DID want someone to work for her. We saw this in season 1. It wasn't until season 3 where we saw a change in Bette and how she wanted to approach her relationship as an equal partnership.

I do agree though that Jodie and Bette are two sides of the same coin and do not compliment each other well.

Actually I think the only couple so far this season that do compliment each other is Alice and Tasha.

[fafababy20]

i LOVEEEEE how jodi doesn't put up with bette's bullshit EVERR . i love jodi, just not for bette. TIBETTE :))

[69tibette]

OMG I hate Jodi so much,Her and Bette never made a good couple