Is Cyber Sex Really Cheating?

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I love my husband and have tried for years to get him to be more open with sex. Here's the problem... I met a wonderful man online and we have the most amazing cyber sex - it this REALLY cheating?

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Howto & Style

Tags:

• affair
• cheating
• cyber
• infidelity
• internet
• sex
• webcam

[gossamerwindweb]

COMMUNICATION. I think most all of the questions posed to you could be answered by saying COMMUNICATE! ;)

[DanAndJenn]

Thank you! can't say that enough.

If we can all just talk to one another, wouldn't life be much easier for everyone...

[skinandbones42]

i feel bad for the person your with, you treat your girl friend/wife like crap. seriosuly stop abusing her and stop telling us what you do to her, treat her like a human being. what your doing to her is horrible

[Chris20Luvs]

i would defintely say that cyber sex is cheating. i feel that sex is not just a physical act but also a mental act. because before the physical activity the mental is what actually iniates the physical. so although through cyber sex you are not physically having sex. you have already commited the mental sexual act so tha is just as important.

[redpeterable]

Your 'advice' is embarrassing. And by the way, I do not believe for one second that you, Jenn, buy half the the things you say. What the fuck do you crave this douchebag Dan's approval for, or the approval or the entire male community on youtube? You're hot and intelligent and my god, could do way better than Monsieur Dickwad on your right.

[FitnessGuru1988]

Stop extending the definition of cheating to accommodate insecurities you have in your relationships. There's no sexting just texting and there's no cyber cheating just looking at nude pics online. Granted texting and looking at nude photos online can be a precursor to cheating and can be guidelines for ending a relationship, but they in themselves are not cheating. Cheating = Doing the Nasty and that's it.

[Silentium92]

There is no cheating as long as you have an open relationship which is more interesting than monogamy :D

[acerb45666555]

CyberSex is not cheating! even fucking a "working girl" is not cheating! its only cheating when the two cheating parties actually fall in love and cook up a plan of escape! then, of course, the offended wife may kick his ass all the way to hells gates!

[carly10111213]

I love this

[lappenstomper8]

anyone here wanna cyber sex ?

[caro1063]

cybersex phone sex is cheating you get emotionally attached to the person you are having cyber with even to the point of a cyber relationship where u fall in love with that person when you fall out with that person it really hurts so much,its worse emotionally than real life.you cant talk to that person so sort things out.the pain is very real.

[stewartx5]

A better question might be "is cybersex really sex or a poor substitute?" Regardless, I think sitting in front of a computer and talking about it for hours, day after day, is a little twisted. Something (reality, social interaction, emotional well-being, or whatever) is clearly missing from these people's lives. In any case, cybersex opens a door to sex and cheating in the real sense, which is why I'd object to participation by either my spouse or myself.

[AquariusLowtide]

My guy and I had an open relationship online. We thought it was not a big deal, but it was. When these other people ask to talk to on the phone, know personal detail about you, and wish to meet you one day, and your thinking about doing it. It is cheating. Too much drama..Not worth it. So we joined a virtual reality world together, and do freaky, fun things together. It's alot better now for us to act out our fantasies with each other.

[doutzen177]

CYBERSEX IS CHEATING - ANYONE WHO SAYS ANYTHING ELSE IS FOOLING THEMSELVES SO GOOD, THAT THEY START TO BELIEVE IT!

- and they are all loosers.