Giving her good head

For her:

* Relax - if you spend lots of time giving him oral sex, it's only fair that he should do something pleasant for you too. It's your turn to be spoiled, so just relax and enjoy it.

* Keep it clean - by clean, we mean having a daily shower and using unperfumed mild soap. A healthy vagina has a natural mild musky smell, but don't let pathetic playground stories upset you. It doesn't smell like rotting fish down there, so don't feel self-conscious.

* Play fair - if you want your man to go down on you, just ask him to. If you feel a bit shy, try getting into bed upside down - he'll probably get the message. If he really isn't in the mood, or the idea upsets him, just respect his decision and don't try to force the issue. There is nothing wrong with having oral sex during a period, but a lot of men really don't like doing it at that time of the month.

* Communicate - let him know how much you like what he's doing. If he hasn't quite got the hang of it, gently suggest a different way of doing things, and be sure to tell him when he's getting it right.

For you:

* Easy tiger - don't just go barging in down there. Take your time, and make sure you are both feeling turned on before you venture south. If you aren't used to giving head, don't expect to bring her to a climax in seconds flat. And if you have bad stubble on your chin, forget it; no girl wants razor burns in such a sensitive place.

* Ask what she likes - you don't necessarily have to go down on her for several hours - just a few minutes of oral sex can do wonders for your foreplay. Ask her what feels good and if there's anything that would make it better. Make sure you are both in a comfortable position, or you'll end up with an unsexy crick in your neck.

* No magic formulas - every female is different. There is no point in rigidly following those 'Ten Easy Steps to Give Her an Oral Orgasm' articles in lads' mags. It isn't like an exam, with right and wrong answers. Sometimes you have to experiment to see what works for both of you.

* Start gently - many women say that oral sex gives them more stimulation than penetration. So remember to take it easy and avoid being rough, especially to begin with. Look where you are going too. Gently part the outer lips of the vagina and look for the vaginal opening, and the hooded clitoris above it. These are the most pleasurable areas to stimulate, and are the key to giving the best head. Thrusting a tongue in and out of the vagina might feel good for a moment or two, but it won't be enough to tip her over the edge.

* Work it - try kissing and licking anywhere between her thighs to turn her on. Move on to the clitoris, starting with gentle licking or sucking. Get her to tell you what motion feels the best, what speed and what pressure turn her on the most. Try it with a relaxed, soft tongue, and change to a firmer, pointed tongue. Some women love an up-and-down licking motion, others like it to go from side to side (like a windscreen wiper), and others still like a circular or pressing-down motion.

* Patience, patience - when you have found something that works well, keep on doing it! Take a break if you need one, but avoid stopping suddenly because it can be very frustrating for the woman. Ask if she wants you to use your fingers as well. If she says 'yes', make sure they are wet before you start moving them around on her clit or inside her.

* Practice makes perfect - even if you are both very experienced lovers, it can take a long time to bring the woman to orgasm, so don't stress out, and keep practicing if that's what you're aiming for. It's worth the effort, and she will most likely be happy to return the favour.

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[samderrty123]

More knowledge to update my skills. lmao 

[hellfire3744]

cause period head is fairly nasty... and it may not always, but it definitely can smell like fish.... only the dirty girls!

[ColdMorningStrangler]

@wowclaxon001 first of all some sick pervert send me the link, i had no idea what it was. and what does this have to do with intelligence? you sick twisted pervert, what's wrong with you!? I dont know what cultures you're about, and i'm not sure i want to know. But you actually like putting your tongue and lips on a cunt? have you ever heard about oral hygiene? just tell me this do you brush your teeth after or not? Get help!

[wowclaxon001]

@ColdMorningStrangler Are you completely devoid of any intelligence? This isn't a "new trend". Its been around for thousands of years, and is even revered in some cultures as a form of adding longevity to oneself. Its not unnatural either. There are many documented cases of animals participating in oral sex. That's about as natural as it gets. Immoral? Maybe for your culture, but it is as widely accepted as it is shunned. What I want to know is, why are you looking at this if it is so wrong?

[Wy1r]

3:16

EATIN OUT IS GUUUUUURD!

[MIdru313]

I love eating coochie, tons of fun.. feeling her tense up and listening to her erratic breathing is an amazing turn on. Getting those wet juices all over your lips til it runs down your chin... i think the men who dont eat girls are the ones who are missing out.. if only I could find a lady who feels the same way, damn shyness...

[stevedapirate5]

What I up with the crazy guy who is a afraid of cooter

[ADayToRemember669]

@ColdMorningStrangler I shower and brush after it. I seriously don't understand why you think its so bad. You're still clearly retarded.

[ColdMorningStrangler]

@ADayToRemember669 you seem confused about what's going on, and ya kiss your family with that dirty mouth after? okay ya like putting your mouth on a cunt go ahead, just tell me this.. do you brush your teeth after or go about your day like nothing happened? ya sick in the head, get help!

[ADayToRemember669]

@ColdMorningStrangler Trololol, it not Feminist. Its the female equivalent to a blow job. Nothing wrong with it. Just cause I make her feel good, doesn't mean she dominates me. You're clearly retarded. Give head, then come back and complain, bro.

[ColdMorningStrangler]

@ADayToRemember669 well than i see that u totally bought into this feminist way of life and ya just like getting dominated and controlled. what can i say, the media's to blame for this disturbing new trend its your choice whether ya wanna be part of it or not.

[ADayToRemember669]

@ColdMorningStrangler Actually its completely natural. I actually enjoy giving my girlfriend head because she likes it. If shes enjoying it, I'm enjoying it, I actually offer to fucking do it. Us guys don't have to be the only ones who get head, women deserve it just as much as we do. Depending on your girl, these "foul juices" don't taste bad or burn you, don't know where the hell you got that from. As for pissing and shitting on each other, well, whatever gets you off, right?

[ColdMorningStrangler]

Absolutely DISGUSTING! That's so perverted and unnatural. Why would any man or any human in general want to do something so immoral and wrong ? This is a disturbing new trend, just like piss drinking and shitting on each other. You a young man that's thinking about trying this? Think again! This is the easiest way of contracting STD's, plus the foul juices will burn your lips and mouth. Don't give into these new feminist demands, Be a man of your own will and don't be your gf's little pet!

[yogozarfy]

The narrator sounds so cute :)

[manysharptongues]

hahaha, BULLSHIT! I LOVE my man with stubble. mmm...Feels so good between my thighs... Uh oh...something's happening in my panties! lol

[niwanasod]

hmmm

[MKF30]

Damn, the first chick shown at 0:15 I'd give her head for hours if she wanted....mmmm

[1Necr0phagE1]

I luled at this, I CANT WAIT FOR MY FIRST TIME!



[syjelico28]

lol at YES towards the end xD my eyes literally went huge with hers haha :)

[smileisafrown]

mmmmm my boyfriend should watch this ;)

[pobhockle]

mmmmmmmmmmmmm :))