RESP. video to arkady39 RE: How 2 get over breakup!

This is just a short vlog regarding my taking some time away (40 days during Lent) from my guy. We both have issues and need to change and it seems like we can't make these changes while together. So, I'm taking my first steps at moving along on a different path. I hope that I am strong enough to make it through the 40 days. But, for me, a co-dependent, this is going to be hard as hell.

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[ReddLoveSucks]

Just started my own breakup videos, just went through a hard break up ur video brought some good points up!

[afunkydamsel]

@ReddLoveSucks : Thank you! And just let me say that after all of this time I have no regrets and am proud of myself for having the courage to let go. I wish you every happiness and peace if this is a difficult time for you...but I must let you know that it does get better. ;o)

[Abomb110285]

I Have 2 Put in my 2cents! I Know this video was done in Febuary but... Dont Make Excuses! You Are a QUEEN! You Have 2 Rep That! Your Views Are Final And If He Cant Respect that... You Know What It Is! You May Think You Hard 2 "Deal" With But Every 1 Is! Dont Use that As An excuse!

[afunkydamsel]

@Abomb110285 : Duly noted!

[FindingTee]

I wanna know how the hell you stopped smoking..now i don't have a drinking problem, but i smoke cigarettes still big time, i gotta girlfriend who would like to stop smoking the cheeba, so any tips would be helpful.

Tee

[afunkydamsel]

@FindingTee : Honestly, it's a friggin' miracle that the desire to smoke cigarettes and 'wild sheba' went away. God did it! The only thing I did was say, "NO!" And I did that one day at a time, one craving at a time, one minute at a time... ;)

[mostsincere]

@afunkydamsel

I admire your strength to stop smoking and drinking.  Those habits are some of the biggest turnoffs I have in a woman. I have met some otherwise great women but had those particular habits. I just have a hard time giving a woman a kiss if her hair and cloths smell like smoke, ick! Equally, I can not stand a drunk woman, especially if she wants to settle down with me. Keep doing what you are doing and remain strong.

[rogantu]

@FindingTee easy, stop buying them. don't look at them in the store.

bring pencils with you if you have to and suck on those instead.

or come to Norway and pay me 25 dollars and I will cure it myself in 14 days.

[DaLoRdTrAg]

word

[MeanBlackDude]

It's cool.

....as previously stated, I'm available.

Always only a few clicks away.