D.I.V.A Don't Get Played! Raise Your Standards!

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Shay Your Date Diva brings more of her relationships and dating advice as she shares a message to the ladies on love, dating and relationships and her opinion on why more women get played instead of finding true love.
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[1cebergEntertainment]

but babe i think sum women like bein treated like shit look at rhianna the pop singer she got back with her bf chris brown after he brutally beated her. but a nice guy approches her and she sticks her nose up. face it! women are complex.

[lovein30days]

No sweetie, that is a common behavior of an abused woman. Statistics show that abused women return to their abusers at least 11 times before leaving for good. Some women get so use to being treated poorly that they dont know what good looks like or even how to receive it.

[1cebergEntertainment]

really u cant be serious? i thought all these pop stars like rhianna like being treated like queens. since they are so rich etc. i guess thats not the case here. as u say some women go back with their abuser. which is kinda weird if u ask me they deserve it for being stupid enough to go back with them. and it is something wrong in the womans head that makes her like the abusing

[lovein30days]

(exhale) When you get with an abuser you can start off with all of the confidence in the world and slowly find yourself having none. You are often justifying the abuse because you want to believe that the person you love, loves you and to many abused women (esp if they grew up seeing their mother abused) feel that when a man hits them it is love. She begins to hate herself and the abuse begins to fuel a human need. Feel sorry for her.  No body EVER deserves to be abused or beat...period!

SYDD

[JeffrenceDT]

Yes women raise your standards!!!

Just don't come on Youtube and complain when you're 40 and single, please!

[Mroneofakind1]

pretty good,women do have the power

[Liliworld627]

I cant tell you how many men Ive met who tell me that im so clever when it comes to blocking their weak ass tactics to try& have their own little evil ways.. hhaaa. Ladies, when you set your "realistic" standards, respect yourself, put these men on trial, test them out, dont chase after them, dont be such a damsel in distress waiting around for their every want& need, make them wait, & be observant of their asses, trust me, you can find the man you seek. You have to teach people how to treat you

[Liliworld627]

You are absolutely right about women needing high standards and just plain loving yourself enough to make the men who are interested in you be respectful towards you and wanting more from you than just whats between your legs. Men have played this man game since the beginning of time so the tricks that they have up their sleeves are limitless, but I will say that women can combat these tricks if they just weed through the no good men who pretend to be something that they arent.Weeding Weeding

[battlangl]

HELL YES MAMA!!!! you f'n said it. 

[ATENakaATON]

@kosdaisy no I'm speaking in general not in terms of exact science the field is too varied for that, however I am quite sure these statistics are fairly accurate. My reserve is not in those particulars alone, but the other fields of study are of uncommon interest. I have studied what can be called the occult and it has been a necessary factor in the way I view the world as such.

[kosdaisy]

@ATENakaATON Assuming you are educated in the inaccuracies of even well conducted statistical research I presume you know that studies, surveys, etc are still generalizations. No one can say for a fact what most married people have done that led to their divorce. They are all guesses and generalizations whatever the basis used to guide the generalizations. Your stating your opinion as fact was a generalization based on other generalizations. I will however, agree to disagree with you.

[kosdaisy]

@ATENakaATON Agreed. And one's actions are based upon ones moral and ethical stature. You are going astray. The conversation was about how someone defines someone as a good partner not as an overall good person and you're confusing good with perfect of which no one is. You are getting into ideologies of capitalism versus socialism which has nothing to do with the topic we were discussing.

[ATENakaATON]

@ATENakaATON Good is subjective but the opinion of good is based on character, ethics, and morals. The reasons which causes actions, not the actual actions themselves. For example, one person might give a lot of money to a charity, but if the reasons are for a tax right off, it's not truly good, even if the outcome/action is good, it would not make the persons reason good, but someone who gives less for the sake of giving is doing good, even though the impact of their action has less percussion.

[ATENakaATON]

@kosdaisy Experience with people, percentage of divorce rates next to number of marriages and marriage rates over time, studies on reasons for divorce, studies on STD's and their growth, paternity test studies, abortion rates, polls and questionnaires on number of sexual partners, statistical studies on rate, age, and wedlock vs out-of-wedlock pregnancy, etc. accumulated together and looked at in a broad sense. People are not "good," read history and you'll know this.

[kosdaisy]

@ATENakaATON Good is defined subjectively. I don't have room to write what that means to me. Just as I can't speculate about what most women are after you can't speculate about what most men want or claim that most married people cheated. I don't have a problem attracting men and I can't speculate as to what attracts them to me but it certainly isn't my age. It's easier to come by a good mate when one doesn't waste too much time on those that aren't good for them whatever that means for them.

[ATENakaATON]

@kosdaisy No i think you don't understand, I'm not stating what kind of woman i want nor have I stated what kind of man I am. I'm stating the fact as to what most men want. There are reasons half if not more of marriages end in divorce and reasons why most married couples have cheated on one another, when i say most i don't mean just over half, i mean well over 80 percent. A good man and a good woman are not easy to come by seeing how most people are not good, so what do YOU mean by "good?"