Yeah I dont completely agree with everything Doctor Simon says, its very limiting and in some cases, counter-productive. You may feel rejected, but the first step to changing that is not by lying to yourself and saying you're confused/empty etc, but by accepting that you feel rejected. Then you proceed to the why, then you deal with it. If I follow Dr Simon's method of eliminating victimization I will just end up with a buried pandora's box of pain and anger.
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MrGrayan 2 months ago
Yeah I dont completely agree with everything Doctor Simon says, its very limiting and in some cases, counter-productive. You may feel rejected, but the first step to changing that is not by lying to yourself and saying you're confused/empty etc, but by accepting that you feel rejected. Then you proceed to the why, then you deal with it. If I follow Dr Simon's method of eliminating victimization I will just end up with a buried pandora's box of pain and anger.
leopardspots2004 7 months ago