The effects of verbal abuse on society and everyday people

This video explains why people in colleges and workplaces lash out ''randomly'' as people are made to believe by the media.Only criminals kill without reason.

Why would young people with everything going for them,the world ahead of them ruin it all?Are they stupid?Crazy?Perhaps.Maybe not.

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[subfoxus]

maybe you can keep the personal shit to yourself. yes that would save me 6 minutes of my time listening to some idiot who believes in suicide. dick.

[donkerskaduwee]

@subfoxus,thank you for your thoughtful comment.I didn't make this video for YOU.I made it to explain my position in the world to the people around me asking me questions.Also to help people like myself,humans like to know that they're not alone,that's the way we are.

In a short while i won't bother you with any videos anymore,don't you worry.

[azazazaz878]

hmmm. i understand that your being bullied or harrased,but dude. cmon. i completely understand that "your lifre sucks" or stuff like that. but it reay doesnt. ya know what. just make new friends and stick up for yourself when people put you down. you cant keep going through life ike this. if you do something like pushing them or telling them to stfu, im sure they will stop. the longer you let this continue the worse it will become. wehn you go out, make new friends and dont be shy. dont give up.

[donkerskaduwee]

@azazazaz878,my parents want to move to canada,if the people here reject me then i will probably jump in front of a car.That's if i don't do it before we get there.

[alohasarahgirl]

@ShadowZz123 Our suffering is valid, even when it may be less than others. Weakness is to ignore suffering, strength is to acknowledge and opens the doors to change. There is plenty of room to love all wounds.

[alohasarahgirl]

@978Account Use your brain and look it up, because this causes suicides and homicides. If you bully, you are accountable. Most of society cares. If you don't, then you shouldn't be here. There are shallow videos to watch. This video took immense courage, I am sorry you can not see that. Open your heart and your eyes or go live with wild badgers. We are human beings, capable of compassion and empathy. You are not utilizing your capabilities if you can not have understanding and GIVE support..

[alohasarahgirl]

@donkerskaduwee These guys are rejecting the things they see in you that they can not accept in themselves. They are terrified to be authentic and admit they too are suceptible/human. Your video is very educated about verbal abuse. It is needed. You are needed. We need people like you, as you understand how important evolution beyond hate is. I could probably whoop both their asses, but I choose to be kind instead, you have to chose. Hate or love. They will drive u to hate. If not them, yourself

[alohasarahgirl]

@subfoxus What makes you lash out at someone who is suffering? Can you not except your own vulnerability? Will you not be good enough or loved if you are kind? Are you yourself abused? He did not waste our time, I appreciated this and the anger is understandable. You are not the center of the universe. We all have a right to enjoy this person. If you do not like them, keep your personal shit to yourself and stop wasting our time on this beautiful earth with your hate. Fair enough?

[alohasarahgirl]

I am so sorry for your suffering. Please try to find a few books on verbal abuse (abusers included). You just need love. This is one of the most detrimental forms of abuse and leaves the victim with little hope. You end up lashing out like your abusers. Don't do this, you have so much worth. They are harmful because our society is trained on fear and encourages narcissistic behaviors. The bullies who continued to threaten you here are harmful people. turn away. I promise you you are loved.

[mgmor7]

great video man, btw people in canada are usually nicer, and i hate saying this but u gotta stand up for yourself, even if u feel like an idiot for standing up to people, it's a lot better than not doing it, also confront them one on one not when there in a group

[nightcrawler511]

@nightcrawler511 and even thought its summer im still depressed, because next month it'll start all over agin but i will be quiet i wont even socialize, i'll try to make everyone

[nightcrawler511]

i hate it, im going into senior year im so fucking glad,idontcare if i see anyone from highschool ever again! i would go home and cry because of the things they said.i cried in class a few time but hid it.all because i love the beatles everyone made fun of me.it sucks! i still look forward to my future as in college etc. but now im stuck in this spiral depression becuz of school.i know im not the only beatle fan being picked on but it just sucks music use to be my escape until highschool:'(

[978Account]

Why do you tell us? We can't do anything about it, and almost everyone has been bullied once in his or her life. So you don't have to explain the effects to us.

[mrsgreenthumb100]

@subfoxus Maybe a little compassion in your world would go a long way. Verbal abuse is more destructive than physical abuse and it never leaves you.  Anger is one ugly emotion when people express it abusively and a lot of good points were made. It's harder to escape when you live with it in your family and to experience it as a child from other kids pretty much sucks. Again, it never leaves you but you can go beyond it. Donkersaduwee, don't give up it gets better...don't give up!