Marriage Help - Making Love

This week we talk about the importance of making love, especially in the restoration process. A husband and wife bonding together regularly in this most precious and amazing way can make a huge difference in the success of the marriage. joel and kathy davisson

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[ibmsony101]

@misule21 To every story there are two sides. What I am most familiar with is the man-hating feminist inspired programming that have made American women some of the most miserable, domineering, ungrateful and non-gratifying spouses on earth. My experiences and that of several of my friends, acquaintances and family members usually points at the feminist American culture and upbringing as the source of the non-satisfaction, bedevilment and misery of American women.

[misule21]

@lovejumping2011 some christians only believe that men should climax. it doesnt matter if the wives never reach that point.

[misule21]

@cubicaljane sex becomes a chore when the other side doesnt do their part. so its okay for a guy to say to his woman that she needs to be healthy and look attractive cause a guy is visually turned on. well, guess what? so is a woman. you wanna have great sex? take the time to turn your woman on. sheesh! guys these days.

[misule21]

@ibmsony101 ha. not even. for the record, im romanian american. and we pride ourselves in good love making. :) and also for the record, the man isnt getting deprived. you dont know my story, or what im dealing with, so dont put me in your little "princess" boat. Im a far cry from a princess. And i dont mind it. I like to serve. I find great joy in taking care of my loved ones. But i dont like to be walked on. Im not a door mat. ive given above and beyond. its time for me to be taken care of too.

[misule21]

@lovejumping2011 why? cause once the guy is done, he's done. he has no energy for anything else. its off to la-la land. now thats just my experience. there might be guys who are different. and in that case, then the woman doesnt need to be taken care of first.

if you are talking about turning a woman on, thats a whole other subject. You guys wanna have great sex? turn your woman on. How you do that? first make love to her mind. once you got her mind, everything else falls in line.

[ibmsony101]

@misule21 Your problem like much of American women is that you have been raised as a privileged princess who expects the whole world to revolve around you. You are sexually depriving your husband and you do not feel bad about it at all. If you walk a day in his shoes, you would find that he is the one who got hosed on the deal. But of course, your upbringing and values would prevent you from empathizing with his plight. Just say to yourself: "I am glad to be an American.lah..la.."

[lovejumping2011]

I don't know why a wife's needs to be met first before making love? I never understood it.

[lovejumping2011]

@cubicaljane Some Christians believe only men need sex.

[cubicaljane]

@misule21 Why do you think sex is a chore?

[cubicaljane]

I'm not married but I have married Chrstian friends and the wives were raised pretty much to not like sex.A friend told me this.She told me her mom said "women don't need sex" but this is the message Christian women hear so I think this effects married life so much.This has been the message the women grew up with.