Kiely Williams - Dear Kiely #3 (Lying in your Relationship)

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Kiely Williams answers Nicki of California Question:

"Dear Kiely, I just started dating a guy, but I told him a huge lie. Now I really want to tell him what I said wasn't true, but I'm scared he'll dump me. I feel guilty and want to come clean to him, but I don't know if he will understand how bad I feel about it. How do I say this to him??"

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[Hanklink1014]

@Luckycharms2007 have you seen spectacular since posting that comment?

[kailynnmbaby]

i agree. if u lie about somethin small u'll lie about somethin big. u dont wanna start a relationship off by lying. all that does is set the tone for things to come. i disagree wit kiely on this one. sorry!!!

[TheLiljez]

she's telling a liee

[cheerviolinst15]

South park is playing in the background XD

[EndlessClaw]

Only thing is if she cheated that is gounds for termination, and should be told anyway. If that is not the case then she sould tell him and he should be understanding enough to hear her out. No matter what she should tell the truth.

[Dtownfoxy]

Honesty is the most important factor in a relationship.. By lying its already fucked up. But if you come at him with yer honesty and be like I didn't know how to tell you but I want you to know the truth.. He may respect your honesty and you going out on a limb and risking everything to be honest with him. Because of that he may be able to forgive you.. You just need to explain everything. If the relationship is lost after that then I guess you learn yer lesson.

[xtinaluver1]

good advice, and your really pretty!

[queenjulien]

yeah! usually if a guy really loves you he'll understand whatever you lied if you tell him up front. Boys usually have a kept secret too.

[dealmaker007]

@Aquamarine045 not really an excuse. It's a "huge lie", and most likely something the guy deserves to know the truth about. She made her choice to lie about it, now he should be given a choice to forgive her or not. Or trust her or not. Her not telling him doesn't give him a choice. If she is dishonest she is not trustworthy. She knows this, this is why she is scared.

[618wood]

lookin fine as ever...