VAMDIJAP 4 - Coming out and getting boyfriends

Wherein Jack talks about coming out and also maybe finding a relationship. You know, if you're into that.

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[yobboblogging]

I dont think sexuality is a big thing... it's just a thing. I dunno I can't imagine coming out is anything life changing. Personally I've never needed to do it but it's always just something like oh that person likes boys lets move on when they come out

I dont think we should hype up the coming out process because in my eyes sexuality is just insignificant

bleh i wrote an essay sorry

[Juanitothegreat]

@yobboblogging I wish I could agree with you, because that would mean we live in a world where being gay isn't perceived by a curse or disease by some people. But, unfortunately, there are still people who see it that way and sometimes those people play a huge role in the life of somebody dealing with figuring out their sexuality. So, in some experiences, coming out is a huge deal because it could mean losing close friends or family.

[CapeDog69]

I think what they meant to ask is "How do I get a boyfriend like Jack?".

[Juanitothegreat]

@CapeDog69 I'm not really the best boyfriend.

[mojomike]

You are awesome Jack. ^_^

[Juanitothegreat]

@mojomike Thanks.

[pvampire]

Hey Jack, this is one of your best videos ever! You've really come a long ways since the early days! I think your public speaking skills have improved 100%. (they were never bad anyways..just saying) I dont know how this video slipped by me I usually dont miss your videos. Good to see you mate!

[machelli]

@fizzylimon VERY true. Hear hear!

[LukeTraveller92]

I say that 'cos I live in a small vllage where being gay is seen as a thing to avoid... even if I told to some of my friends and they accepted me for who I am and i'm really happy for it but I can't be exactly who I want to be.

Luke. :)

[LukeTraveller92]

I really like your video. Anyway Come out to parents is a big step during the life of each gay/lesbian or bi people in the world. I havent' told to my parents for now. But i guess that they know it, but they dont say anything... Maybe a day I'll tell them the tru wei'll see. For now I want to finish the school and begin the University ( that is located far from where I live and maybe there i could be really who I am).

[gneerowblack]

What accent were you going for there?

[fizzylimon]

It always baffles me how people think that starting a relationship is drastically different for different sexualties, when in my observation, it's really not. You find someone you connect with over something mutual, you hit it off, and a relationship kind of starts on its own. Whether that's with a male or a female doesn't matter quite so much as whether it's with someone who's being themselves and with whom you can be yourself.

[louiswolfe]

Worst time to come out to your parents is when you and your boyfriend are naked in bed - Best time to come out would be the day before mom walks in on you and your boyfriend naked in bed.

[CapeDog69]

@juanitothegreat don't take this the wrong way, bit you're adorable. You like pokemon. You're smart. You're caring.

A guy would be lucky to nab you.