Christiana: On High Maintenance Women!

http://twitter.com/Christiana1987 http://www.christianarants.com It's ok to be a high maintenance woman as long as you can maintain yourself! Otherwise...get it together!

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[kenyagirl2009]

@soulphisticated so true.

[noisence]

AMEN!



[lkofie]

cont. A supportive spouse/partner wouldn't mind what you aspired to do or be or how you maintain yourself anyway as long as you don't selfishly compare him or your lifestyle together with what other people/peers have that you don't have ("keeping up with the Jones') and pressures. That's how in the end the woman gets what she wants and not need to rely on the man entirely for her own upkeep...AND by being patient and not doing what I've stated before, he would be happy to work hard for you too.

[lkofie]

I DEFINATELY AGREE with everything you've stated in this video. Particularly, when you've stated how a woman should maintain her self intellectually, career wise etc, my father has always taught me that. He said instead of expecting a man to do and be everything for you, the woman should direct the energy and focus on enhancing herself. It's not to imply that I should take care of a man, but if I want better, I SHOULD aspire to do it myself if my partner isn't interested in doing it. A

[torresstr8]

You make some sense but your concept of being 'high maintenance' is casuistical bullshit. Sorry but it's true.

[CosmicD]

Well, you make a good point but I wouldn't call a woman who provides for her OWN high maintenance woman a high maintenance women. She's just having high standards then. High maintenance women let OTHERS maintain them in the superficial stuff they want to easily have a wildcard that enables them to "belong to high society". I hate that kind of women.

[vincent15641]

Compare high maintenance women with the video called "What Women Want is Worship".

[soulphisticated]

Great points made. I do agree w/ you but would also like to add that a high-maintenance woman should remain grounded. There's nothing worse than a woman spends money on herself but looks down on other people.

[smithhedgehog]

great quote - sums it up nicely

[AJCiti]

I totally agree...