2. Transgender sibling update. Surgery!

my older sibling is having surgery tomorrow and i just heard last night! What do i do? just call, or get the train up there?! What if something happens during surgery or after (complications?) He has never kept in touch. I tried calling and sending letter but it was all onesided so i gave up. I have always been supportive of this change but he is not supportive of my non jewish partner. I cannot understand this lack of returned understanding but it will not shape how i act or feel about my only full blood sibling. I pray all goes well.

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[celestialsalamander]

is you brother going to... get the downstairs operation? I sore a picture of what they can do these days. it's not very convincing. You can tell the skin came from somewhere else.

This may sound nieve but I often think it better to have a proper set of the genitals you don’t what then a pain imitation of the kind you do want.

[bewareoftheleapard]

@celestialsalamander I don't think he wants one just yet but they can actually do a really good job of it from things i have seen. I think he agrees with you though and last time we talked about it he said it involved taking a lot of skin from your legs or arms etc to make it and it leaves you scared, also I don't think he is too into penis' but i think if i was wanting to be a bloke i would want one!

[bewareoftheleapard]

Let's not fight. xx

[MakeAGameWithMe]

you look okey as a girl (typical blondie) but i can still see that you used to be a man

[bewareoftheleapard]

@MakeAGameWithMe No! I have never NEVER been a man in any sense. Sorry but you must not have listened to a word i said in the video and must also not know what 'sibling' means. It means brother or sister. I am offended by your comment.

[nuffsaidguy]

U r so damn good looking..yummy!

[bewareoftheleapard]

@faceslapper55 what are you talking about??? This video is about my BROTHER having his BREASTS REMOVED! geese does no one listen to what i actually say? I am 100% FEMALE from birth and just for your information hormones alone can not change someones body from one gender to the other silly.

[JeffersonDinedAlone]

Don't take the time to drive to be with her/him/it.  Too slow. Take the tranny.

[bewareoftheleapard]

@q8Girl69 that's because i am one duh

[q8Girl69]

@bewareoftheleapard

You sure look like a girl..

[Asuigeneris1]

@MakeAGameWithMe

...low wattage?

[coronajeep2001]

@bewareoftheleapard You are a verY prettY girL!! i like your hair, and you have BEAutiful eyes hun!

Regurading ur response here where u said u might even want one too :P That would be cool! U could lo0k into getting one hehe. :P I am a guy and have all the normal dangling junk tho, and am tired of it all, and tired of bonking it all on things & think it all lo0ks ugly & stuff.. :/

[pixie1310]

ur sexy and u know it;)

[gp4nut]

@bewareoftheleapard i don't see the point of it. i mean, its a pumped up piece of skin. it doesn't do anything sexually. tech is nowhere near what it is for the reverse operation.

[LikesTruth]

It's not politically correct for me to say so, but I don't think we acknowledge that loss. We expect support, when people haven't experienced us, as we have seen ourselves, so I think we should be more patient with our friends/family who may make the occasional mistakes w/ the gender pronouns. I hope your brother's surgery went well, & I hope you two can become closer siblings. Take it from someone who has no family. I'd do anything to have family & I think your brother is lucky to have you.

[LikesTruth]

I also want to say that I understand that it is a loss for you too. You once had a sister, even though you mentioned he was like a brother when you were younger anyway, to you he was your sister. And I hope you can find some support for that, because too often we expect our families and friends to just "get it" and "get over it" and I actually don't think that is fair. Yes, you are gaining a brother, but for you, you have also lost a sister, and that is a fair thing for you to grieve.

[LikesTruth]

I think it's pretty great that you care about your brother so much. And I would be thrilled to have a sister or brother who cares about me, like you do for him. As a trans guy who is still unable to afford top surgery, I understand his pain. I'm still living with having to bind every day. I'm sure your sibling will be much happier and maybe more open to having a closer relationship with you some day. If you can't see him in person, just ring him up and let him know he's in your thoughts.