Also, stop using the word "gay" to describe mannerisms. Gay is NOT synonymous with effeminate, kitsch, Lady Gaga-listening, gay-pride-parade-attending, et al. To be gay is to be attracted to people of your own gender, nothing more or less. Masculine gays are (again) mostly as true to their own true selves as feminine gays are, and to make assumptions about the honesty of masculine gays is as offensive as it is for masculine gays to criticize effeminate gays.
You seem to think masculine gay guys only act masculine because they're insecure about their true, "gay" personality, or want to hide it. That's not the case- many people- such as myself- act masculine because they actually ARE masculine. Similarly, many masculine gays say they find feminine gays annoying because they actually DO dislike that culture and personality. That's not to say it's right for them to bully, but it's wrong for you to assume masculine gay guys are just insecure.
Being a Homosexual has nothing to do with being Masculine or Feminine. It is more about your sexual preference and you feel more comfortable being romantic with. You are what you are and who you choose to sleep with is your inner desire and want.
I'm a "straight-acting" gay and I feel weird about living a "double life", but my straight guy friends mean a lot to me. I grew up in a rural town and I always had to "act" straight to have any friends.I have never hated on a fem guy, but I personally would prefer not to date them. But it's not like I'm gonna refuse to be around them or turn my nose up and act disgusted. And no, it isn't feminine gays who are the reason we are hated. Fear is. I respect fem guys.
Not all "straight-acting" gays hate feminine gays. It's not "acting" either. I have a deep voice and i guess I'm not 'flamboyant', but that's just who I am, and I'm not trying to hide myself. I'm out to the people I want to be out to, and I'm perfectly fine with fems and transsexuals.
The divide isn't as clear-cut as you're making out.
Also, stop using the word "gay" to describe mannerisms. Gay is NOT synonymous with effeminate, kitsch, Lady Gaga-listening, gay-pride-parade-attending, et al. To be gay is to be attracted to people of your own gender, nothing more or less. Masculine gays are (again) mostly as true to their own true selves as feminine gays are, and to make assumptions about the honesty of masculine gays is as offensive as it is for masculine gays to criticize effeminate gays.
Finally, if you're trolling, 10/10.
dollarmonos 1 week ago
You seem to think masculine gay guys only act masculine because they're insecure about their true, "gay" personality, or want to hide it. That's not the case- many people- such as myself- act masculine because they actually ARE masculine. Similarly, many masculine gays say they find feminine gays annoying because they actually DO dislike that culture and personality. That's not to say it's right for them to bully, but it's wrong for you to assume masculine gay guys are just insecure.
dollarmonos 1 week ago
Being a Homosexual has nothing to do with being Masculine or Feminine. It is more about your sexual preference and you feel more comfortable being romantic with. You are what you are and who you choose to sleep with is your inner desire and want.
Badmug 2 weeks ago
Gays need equality. Ironically, in gay community is still having discrimination
MaJeSTiC9653 3 weeks ago
I'm a "straight-acting" gay and I feel weird about living a "double life", but my straight guy friends mean a lot to me. I grew up in a rural town and I always had to "act" straight to have any friends.I have never hated on a fem guy, but I personally would prefer not to date them. But it's not like I'm gonna refuse to be around them or turn my nose up and act disgusted. And no, it isn't feminine gays who are the reason we are hated. Fear is. I respect fem guys.
Flothroughout1134 3 weeks ago
Thank you :)
Flame On!!!
leobby21 3 weeks ago
<3
theroze100 3 weeks ago
Not all "straight-acting" gays hate feminine gays. It's not "acting" either. I have a deep voice and i guess I'm not 'flamboyant', but that's just who I am, and I'm not trying to hide myself. I'm out to the people I want to be out to, and I'm perfectly fine with fems and transsexuals.
The divide isn't as clear-cut as you're making out.
MrLemonhead2 4 weeks ago