How do I cope with my boyfriend's "girl" friend?

I got two questions that were VERY similar with slight differences, so I condensed it into one video. Its a bit lengthy, but I tried to get my point across!!! If you would like to be apart of this video series, message me and tell me about your problems! Everything is anonymous unless permitted otherwise. Don't be afraid to contact me! I can be your shoulder to cry on or just someone you can rant too. I'm here for YOU!!!!




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[karenykareny]

Hello! Thanks for your video, but, I've been both sides and I feel I should also share something with you and whoever is interested about this subject. My boyfriend has a girl friend and I honestly never met her, but I don't really like how she is always asking him for help as if he was her only friend or something. I have this feeling that she is trying to compete with me: will he give more attention to me, his long-time friend or to you, the new girl.

[thatsmisskellytoyou]

@karenykareny if its bugging you so much, you need to tell your boyfriend this and since you've never actually met this girl, well maybe you need to. See who your potentially "competing" with. All in all, its more about being secure in your relationship. If your not secure with your relationship, you need to figure out why. And 95% of the time its not even about the other girl.

[Princess11th]

I think that assuming that it's always the girlfriends fault is a little presumptuous. You obviously never been the Girlfriend. You've obviously never had you're boyfriend's friends call you names, make fun of how you dress or what you do for a living, "accidentally" spill food all over you, and the while, you are supposed to just sit there and take it because if you say anything, you get labled as being "jealous."

[thatsmisskellytoyou]

@Princess11th I didn't assume that. But each party needs to understand each other. Hon, if you're having problems with this other girl, you need to be clear and vocal about it. And if she says, "You're just jealous", you need to tell her, back off. He is my boyfriend, not yours. There needs to be some kind of boundaries. You need to talk to both your boyfriend and this friend of his. Because in all reality, she is probably the one that is jealous, and trying to corrupt your relationship.

[thatsmisskellytoyou]

@Princess11th Also, this is just my opinion. I don't have a degree or anything to give my opinion out, but I hope that I help. I can't please everyone, but I'm trying my best to be open to all sides of an argument. I hope you understand.

[BrittanysMusicUtube]

I love this advice video, Kel. You did a great job as usual! I will share this video tomorrow afternoon so more people can see it. <3

[thatsmisskellytoyou]

@BrittanysMusicUtube Thank ya :)

[karenykareny]

I know girls in general. Yes, the girl usually DO get jealous when her close, good looking guy friend has a new girlfriend. Girls DO want to compete for his attention and the situation is not so nice as you are telling there. They have chemistry already, something in common and probably in the past they might have thought about how was the feeling of kissing him/her. So yes, we do have a reason to be jealous. It's not a bout trust, but just the feeling we cant help having.