Dating For Free Online: Why it Doesn't Work

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Go to: http://www.themodernman.com/secrets.html Have you ever tried dating for free online to get a girlfriend or to find a new woman to have sex with? No doubt you've discovered that it simply does not work and wastes a lot of your time and money.

In a recent survey of our newsletter list of 54,000 subscribers at TheModernMan.com, we found that 96% of guys had not been able to successfully get a girlfriend by using online dating. We recommend that you approach women in person - it is much easier, more efficient and you are NOT trying to compete with 1,000s of other guys for her attention.

Don't know how to approach women?

Sign into my free newsletter for tips on what to say when you approach a woman so she becomes interested immediately. Plus, what to say to keep the conversation going and keep it interesting: http://www.themodernman.com/secrets.html

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  • I've had women tell that I'm really good looking, and yet on POF I got nowhere. Out of 50 messages sent I'd get maybe 1 or 2 replies that would go nowhere and I'd get 2s and 3s messaging, so I gave up in disgust. I did happen to get a beautiful Italian chicks attention with a sarcastic message and actually got her on the phone and she told me she'd gotten 800 messages in the 3 days since she signed up. It was a real revelation.

  • @trevormac77 Exactly what I'm talking about! If the chick is hot, she is being bombarded. Amazing that you even got a response. That's why we recommend guys approach women in real life. For guys who are interested to learn how: Go to TheModernMan . com and watch our free videos, then read my ebook The Flow. Thanks for sharing your comment Trevor - much appreciated.

  • Hey Dan...I heard about from a friend who got your conversation product and is now killing it with the chicks. My issue is with confidence rather than conversation. Do you have any advice on overcoming fear of approaching and getting rid of approach anxiety?

  • @valdeztrinny Yes, listen to our program "Mastery Methods & Mindsets" - it has been designed to fix that problem and it works!

  • What you say about the guys being stuck in the friend zone with girls online is me... :( I talk to girls on msngr and sometimes on the phone, but can't go past that point. Any tips?

  • @ezralennox Yes, watch the video on my site about getting out of the friend zone. Type in "friend zone" into the search box on my site: themodernman . com

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  • I just want to go on record and say that I've used Dan's techniques from his ebook The Flow and they work like a charm. I would never waste my time with online dating now that I know how to approach women in real life. I recommend you get Dan's book and learn how to pick up women naturally.

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  • Absolutely brilliant advice mate. POF has really dragged me down lately. I'm gonna approach girls outdoors from now on.

  • May the truth set us free. I have used a few online dating sites even paid for and they are a waste of time, totally! However I believe there is never a truly right or wrong in a sense. Maybe we're just to vain and should start to love and respect the one person "our self". Perhaps relationships are experiences we want to learn and master to find out if they are for us!

  • Fellas don't waste your time with online. A good girl friend of mine showed me her POF dating inbox last week. She had 26 pages of emails from just the last 30 days alone. She had over 200 emails in that span. Everything he talks about in this video is dead on, she only responds to the 3 or 4 most attractive guys, and the rest of the time she just laughs at the guys and says how she really only uses it as a self esteem booster. Boost your game in real life and don't use online as a crutch!

  • I would like to say that it has worked for me on plentyoffish. I have met the sweetest girl and we have so much in common. But, he is right. 99% of the time it is like he says it is.

  • @hoagiemcgee Hey - click on the link I have provided under the video, or go The Modern Man . com and scroll to the bottom of the site. You'll then see a newsletter sign up box.

  • @Mumsilius Hey - it's actually a perfectly good question, don't worry. The answer depends on when the nightlife is really pumping in your area. However, I usually pull my one night stands about 1-2 hours before people start heading home (about midnight to 1am). One of the most important rules: Stay in there and make sure you escalate to the kiss before suggesting you leave together. Go to my site and get Dating Power - it includes the full explanation of how to pull one night stands.

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