What Does It Mean When He Says "You're Fun"?

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Question: What Does It Mean When He Says "You're Fun"? Matt and Tamsen answer a question from a woman who can't tell whether or not a guy is interested in friendship or a relationship.

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"Hey everybody, Matt and Tamsen here with Ask YourTango answering your love and relationship questions.

Today's question comes from SweetiePie.

She says I've been saying this guy for just over a month. I like him a lot but we're not boyfriend and girlfriend. He's telling her he thinks she's fun.

Fun, that's a great way to described. Fun and close friends mean he is not in it for a relationship at least right now.

He's also telling her this though: he needs to know her more before we get into a relationship, that is garbage.

I think he switched roles. Guys are supposed to to be the aggressor. They don't normally always have to, but in general, they will come after a girl with a vengeance, in a good way, that they really like. Stop pushing the situation.

If a guy is telling you he doesn't know you well enough to be in a relationship with you but he knows you well enough to be good friends, that's insane!

You know what, you need to be good friends with him and not worry about the relationship. I know you like him a lot right now he is not in a place where he's ready to be any closer to you.

When a guy likes a woman, the word friendship never comes into play, ever. Guys, don't use the f-word. Alright, Sweetiepie, let us know what happens."

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[MaicoMoon]

It means you're fun to hang out with and be around. What else do you think it means? Why don't you ask them the next time around what they mean if you're so insecure and mealy-mouthed. If you're fishing for answers, be direct and ask direct questions. Stop pussy-footing around, no pun intended.

[amanatee27]

Guys won't use the word "friendship"?!? Sorry, but the most successful relationships I've seen started with the couple being best friends before taking the next step. If you can't consider or confide in your boyfriend as also "just a friend," something is wrong with that relationship.

[brucekash]

garbage.. You don't get into a relationship with a total strange. You have to trust him/her and that doesn't happen without friendship. Of course, one thing I will agree with the video is that the guy is pretty much not into her right now. Otherwise, he would have accepted it. If he is saying that he needs to learn more about you, "he is just not into you".

[ralphinator2]

Fun can really mean fun, but friends means "just friends".

[musiclover519]

Sexist, stupid advice, and everyone should take a shot! This is why I didn't sub to you

[stategrad350]

actually I like to use the friend word some times and continue to flirt when "perusing" just to throw her off her game a bit... you'd be surprised how many women out there can be a bit full of themselves and view it as a challenge. As for the question, they were right... he doesn't want a relationship, but more than likely he does like getting laid (or what ever is going on there)

[stopdreamingkid]

@soulassasin10

LMFAO I KNOW RIGHT!

[MaicoMoon]

So many of these Q&A videos should be retitled to, "What does it mean when you're going out with a girl that's a total moron?"

[deenman23]

@jaganishi hmm good point heh...but u never see guys ask these stupid questions on tango do u???just gals...