Giving Narcissist Second Chance

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So, you go back to your "relationship" and hope for a better ending. You walk on eggshells. You become the epitome of submissiveness, a perfect Source of Narcissistic Supply, the ideal mate or spouse or partner or colleague. You keep your fingers crossed. But how does the narcissist react to the resurrection of the bond? (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 2 DVDs with 12 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)

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[booboonation]

Normal people don't believe that others can be like this, so they don't believe it when you complain. Yes, threats, yes, abuse by proxy. All of this sounds unreal, but if you've lived it, it seems unreal that someone else would be talking about it.

[JuliaGillardOfficial]

Narcsissts make up personalities "on-the-run" so as to win over "brand new friends" but these "affected" personalities soon die in the ass and their core agressive-dependent personality emerges. Great fucking video dude! Great to hear you mention "Gaslighting" too, most peole do not know/understand this term let alone movie that originated it.

[sn9696]

@booboonation ,i went throught this myself,people do not believe a person can be like this unless they have experienced it,this is why i tell now one because they think i'm making it up!

[sn9696]

@knowspin ,Sounds 100% like my ex,"she". People who have not been with people like this won't understand or believe you!

[TheSkunkCat]

Narcissists... If they are in positions of power, or you're some dependent sort of person, they're bad news.

If they are NOT in positions of power, and you're self-confident, they're HILARIOUS.

They're these complete losers who think they are the shit and that they are geniuses, and who think you're an idiot (and thus constantly underestimate you.) And they're really easy (and hilarious) to troll. And they never learn either! Some of the best lolcows on the web are narcissists.

[mayaying18]

I am in this situation now. Although, I already asked for separation/break-up with my "ex" boyfriend, the mere fact that there is no closure, affects me so much. I am in a Trauma.I flew from my own country to the US to get rid of him. His text messages and calls kill torture me still. I hope there will be more programs to make people aware of this kind of personality disorder. His new victims don't believe me (as I was the same when I first met him when I got a warning from his"ex")

[brasilsweet]

Thank You Sam ...And see ya later Lewis...NOT !

[knowspin]

Once I exposed the cheating narcissist, it took me 10 days to decide I was finished with her after many years and 2 wonderful children. She showed no remorse at all and I knew it would never work. That rejection brought out an evil that is scary, over the top, relentless, and cruel to no end. She's so sick that she believes the lie, and I have not missed her for one second...

[heygeno1951]

Boy, Sam V...... you hit this one on the head !