How to deal with rejection and move forward

Whether you are rejected in love or a job, the result is the same: You feel devastated. Most people look at themselves and wonder, "What's wrong with me?" You can't look at it like that. You have to realize, most likely, this rejection has not much to do with you. It could be this person wasn't right for you, or you weren't ready for the job. And it seems, a lot of the time, another opportunity arises as a result!

So, when you get rejected, (because you will, a lot) move on and don't torture yourself. Learn from it.

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[mariedubuque]

huggleexmugglex--It sounds like that person met someone else. That is the only reason I can think of for the sudden lack of communication. Best way to get over them? Socialize a lot with other people! Guys and girls. Just talk to as many people as you can, especially those you don't know very well. Strike up a conversation with someone who you never thought you could be friends with. You'll learn from these people and maybe develop an unlikely friendship.

[mariedubuque]

emfun13--Yes, but the sooner you can move past it, the better you'll feel. Time really does heal.

And thank you all for such kind words!

[mariedubuque]

emfun13--You have to get over him. Think of it this way--he is not worthy of you! Would you really want to be involved with someone who treated you like that? Is he the person who will have your back for the rest of your life? Not likely. So when you look at him in that light, it makes it real easy to forget him.

Leslybear--So glad I helped.

[mariedubuque]

mollstar12--You can ask your question here or email me through this site. I'll be happy to answer!

[zabbbra]

Thank You..

[jaburuians]

thank you!!!

[roceller]

Thank you.

[misnalgas108]

Getting rejected is the most depressing thing ever even more than death i would say

[DeepDreamerZz]

Thank you so much. <3 

[raptorhunter104]

this girl i really like rejected me but i thought she liked me me being rejected just doesnt fit in . she says she doesnt want to hurt me im in depression right now

maybe she knew that because im a year older ill be going tom collage first and decided not to put me through a possible break up

shes a good girl

im choking up right now

[green20103]

I like your advices and suggestions , you are a wise woman , I can tell , I wish I can get more advices concerning suff in my life. Thanks a lot

[Ninita1411]

Helped me a lot :)) thanks for the video :)

[heartbeatlykan808drm]

this is very inspirational , i feel better now thank you so much for uploading this :)

[Juzryt]

it just makes me stronger, think of it as a way to gain more power to overcome more rejections! hope the best of luck to everyone.