Day 15: Coping with Separation and Divorce: Saturdays Suck!

Still trying to get over my husband/ex / father of my children or whatever he is to me....

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[joshgrobanfan1991]

WHY YOU NO HAVE CUSTODY OF YOUR KIDS????????

[AfreeQueen]

@joshgrobanfan1991 I don't have custody of my kids because #1. I didn't conceive them on my own. #2..after our separation and his wanting a divorce...and me moving back to Chicago and not finding a job after a certain amount of time, I decided to ask him to have the kids for a year...they missed a lot of time with him when he was overseas... also, I needed time to get over my situation, find a job and get my life together so that I'll be a better mom for them when I do see them again.

[gosunsss]

hi there, I just split with my hubby after 19 yrs, we have a 14 yr old child. I know exactly what you are going through. My best advice to you, just know his new "Ms Thing" will not last! Focus on your strengths and improve yourself, love yourself, you are worth it! You are a women and we are strong!

[reemixmedia]

We don't always have to be empowering and strong as Black women. We are not inpenetrable, or made of stone. We are women.

I appreciate you showing your vulnerability, and expressing sadness and regret. It shows that you were a woman who put all of yourself into your union with this man. A woman who had the very best of intentions and was in it for the long run. And no amount of monetary compensation can change that.

Please, plant your feet in the ground firmly sister. I know it feels like

[AngelandAna1]

You need your kids. Do what u need to do to get your kids. Women dont NEED men. If he is worthy of your time and beauty he wont hurt you, but for the most part, men only ruin women. They think they can posses us and they can keep giving us the crappy end of the stick. Men are nothimg without us. There isnt a thing men can do that women cant, but there is a whole lot that women do that men couldnt even comprehend. All you need is your kids & they are the ones that need you.

[joshgrobanfan1991]

@AfreeQueen .....I CANT IMAGINE MYSELF WITH OUT MY KIDS, BUT I KIND UNDERSTAND YOUR POINTS!!!......I HOPE YOU PUT EVERYTHING TOGETHER SOON A TAKE YOUR KIDS BACK BEFORE IS TOO LATE!!!

[mscaramelcreole]

hey sister I know how you feel..feels like someone died. i weng thru the same thing, my husband worked in Russia and money and attention went to his head.. now he has a child with a russian woman with all his family and friends support and I was left to pick up the pieces. i went into a depression and my academics suffered..you got to see your beauty or strength and guess what? He did you a favour. All the girlfriend inherited was a dishonest cheater, thank God he is not your problem anymore.

[malgoska76]

How are you doing now????

[DIJV79]

@fruitycunt I'm also anti-marriage and don't believe in having children, but I think you might want to chill on this one.

[AfreeQueen]

@fruitycunt ...says the person with the username 'fruitycunt'. LOL I'm not the most gorgeous woman in the world but I'm worthy of respect because I give it. seems to me that you are not worthy of anyone's respect because you're a special kind of person. You're ugly on the INSIDE. To me, that' the worse person in the world.

[fruitycunt]

@AfreeQueen its true.. single moms are the worst... women age like milk men like wine.. youre just angry because youre a fugly..

[AfreeQueen]

@fruitycunt That's not true. Some women who want to marry want your money.... SOME women who want to marry...want to do it for the love of real men. THe woman you were with was obviously a dumbass. Do what you need to do...but don't blame all women who want a relationship for the break up of yours.