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www.ListenUpTV.com | What does cheating do to a marriage? Listen Up speaks to a couple whose marriage has recovered from an affair. The Retrouvaille program was particularly influential in their healing.

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[howbigisyourlove]

there is alot more going on in a chemical way to infidelity than we know right now.. I bet even the lingering smell of someone else is a good indicator of a brain being repulsed by the idea of engaging in or continuing with a partner that strays. I for one used that to find out if someone cheated,I didn't need the words, but I am a person who believes the cheater needs some serious psychological counselling to get to why they can lie so blatantly well to someone elses eyes & not register empathy

[howbigisyourlove]

@howbigisyourlove so the advancements in science may some day give people who are healthy some tests results that may indicate whether it would be worth it on a molecular to remain in the relationship due to actual statistical facts of whether or not the spouse will continue to engage in sex outside of marriage.. the truth is in the atoms and anatomy of the persons brain... atoms don't lie .. people do..

[howbigisyourlove]

@howbigisyourlove ... reasoning skills are part of the development of the mind to adulthood and the brain is an organ that controls all processes that the mind carries out .. when a young person experiments with drugs in the early stages of adolescences he or she limits their reasoning skills via changing their branches in the neo cortex..

[howbigisyourlove]

@howbigisyourlove allows herself to fully express all that has wounded her they will be a couple united.. this is not about religion.. and that will not heal what is going on psychologically.. no bible can do what a good competent expert in marital relationships can provide. no amount of bible reading gets the human monkey to bonding.. humans have intelligence and some don't know how to tap into it.. infidelity is a choice and so is bonding.. once you screw with your neocortex it is what it is

[howbigisyourlove]

first mistake was her pursuing him.. he said that initially.. anyway he has upper frontal neo cortex issues in that he does not register the impact to her emotionally... he and her need counselling that gets to the pain part of what happened.. she is trying to bring out her pain but she withholds it because he is not ready for the impact of exactly what her authentic self feels.. she is not totally authentic because she is still not in a position of trust . If he proves his fidelity and she ...

[daywrenn]

@casperboo2002 I respect you heartily, I wish there were more ppl with your value system in our cold world. I too was raised w/ that ideology; raised by my grandparents and their 35 years of marriage and fidelity.

[jpa6791]

never mind he's a total homo.

[Doorocker]

If someone cheats and their spouse takes them back, thats their business. But their relationship will never be the same. This guy is rationalizing it by comparing it to alchohalism or whatever. The sharing of sexual intamacy between two people is only special when it is not violated. Otherwise, it becomes a discounted event thereafter.

[casperboo2002]

Whatever makes you sleep at night......cheating is total disrespect to the one you say you love ..never mind your wife...that is taking a lie to a whole new level!!

...I'm proud to be 20 years faithful...even if he ends up cheating on me...I was always loyal faithful to my king, and I did my all...if i fall out of love with him then he will be the first to know.

[cfhfhbg]

Cheaters Man...