Shay Your Date Diva - A warning to college women.
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wish i heard this 3 1/2 years ago :'-(
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Like shortyrock112 suggests some young ladies get pregnant so that they DON'T HAVE TO FINISH SCHOOL AND THEY DONT HAVE TO GRADUATE. They figure that if they get pregnat then they will have something to focus on rather than school, a possible career, and the uncertainty of the future. Shays says there is life after COMPLETING school. That's right. Believe it.
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So many women in my family made the choice to leave school and start families and they are struggling now. (Its so much easier to study without worrying about taking care of kids ladies). That has always been my motivation to finish school, and then think about starting a family of my own when I get married. Good advice Shay, as always. :)
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I'm in college now and I'm still saving my virginity for my husband. You're so right when you say there is a pressure to be in a relationship or find someone in college. Thank you for confirming what I already knew within! My mom told me..."Baby, get your degrees! The man will come." I trust that God already has it taken care of. Thanks again. Great vid!
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Thanks! I needed this b/c I am at that point in my life right now. This is what I needed to hear.
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College, especially in usa, is designed to dumb down general population, condition them to certain rules. Women are like monkeys, they rarely think for themselves, unless they are alfa-females. Then women talk and talk, and many times they talk complains only.
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Your advise, Diva, to ask questions and figure things out involve very logical approach, and women first have to learn to think logically before they do any changes in their life. Single motherhood is a logical sequence, same mistakes, same things over and over...
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thank you for this video shay! it's exactly what I needed to hear :) I'm in my senior year and i seem to be one of the only ones in my group of friends who is single and not really thinking of marriage! you are fabulous. your video's are great
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my last year of college most of my friends got pregnant and I wanted to have a baby I didnt get pregnant by my first boyfriend ever (I didnt start dating until my last year of college) but due to comming from a strict family and over protective parents I thought if I could get pregnant and married my family would finally treat me like an adult because I would be dealing with adult decisions.... but I am now in grad school and doing well for myself.... I have alot of god-children so Im fine
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Thank you so much for this video. I'm in my last year of college and I feel that same uncertainity and fear. I really appreciate you for making this video.

Alot of young women entering into college or already in college need to hear this. Thank you.
JaeBabyXo 3 years ago 5
this is true..good job.
kat24101 3 years ago 3