Interraical dating and marriage.MP4
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and also, there are so many reasons besides race that a family might have for disapproving of a relationship, personality being a main one. you shouldnt have to dump every person you like just because your family decides they dont like them or dont think theyre good enough. and what if youre gay and your family doesnt approve of that? then theyll disapprove of every relationship you have. families in general really shouldnt have any say in who you date.
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Hey Laoshu, I just watched this video and I agree with everything you said. I look at these comments saying the family is at fault, blah blah. These families be it that they're older and follow traditions closely, anything like that, they won't accept you, You have to take into account that you're destroying the bond (you plan to create) of everyone in that family. I do agree that it's 2012, we need to become more accepting, we're just not there yet.
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This is interesting, because I have had three experiences in high school similar to this where I had a good relationship going with white girls until their parents found out about it. I even had one of the fathers threaten to shoot me. At my age now however, I think I have a much better radar and can tell when someone is likely to be from a racist family.
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i recommend you wallraff´s new documentary "black on white"
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My girlfriend's family didn't accept me very well at the beginning but we love eachother and her family eventually started to accept me since they realized that I'm not going anywhere lol.
One thing to keep in mind; If you're determined on doing something then don't let the hard and strong blows put you down. Always get up and see your goals/plans
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Interethnic , interracial, interlanguages relationships between humans, it is a good and difficult experience for more and more open-minded persons.
It is not easy to find the balance between the" village" and the "global village", I hope you'll success, in your marriage and in your multilingual experience and, then, the experience of your (I hope) children.
"Adishatz" (bye-bye for now) from Bearn a little village in the global village.
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@HoseiTutor I think it is a handful of people and that German society in the main is open and free.
hmmm I would have to say that the family shouldn't really have to have an opinion about who their family member dates or marries. If anything, its the family the one being selfish here. The family isn't always ganna be accepting of certain things, but that should not be an obstacle. Its very funny, we haven't changed much as a society.
dayron25 1 year ago
@dayron25 Dayron! Thanks for your comment man. You're right, it's 2010 and we still haven't come very far.
laoshu505000 1 year ago 3
I thik what those people did to you was a bloody disgrace. In Europe I don't think anyone who did that would be considered respectable. I don't suppose a single one in that family had your talents or qualities, and instead of being proud to have you go out with their daughter, they got upset. I seriously hope that they get the son in law who is ethnically all they want, but ethically as big a bastard as they are, and gives them what for.
usenetposts 1 year ago
@usenetposts Thanks for your support my friend.
laoshu505000 1 year ago