black women, are we to blame???

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4tdNxTV9i2c
here is the link to the original vid I was responding too.

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• black women dropped the ball
• black men in america
• self hate

[SenCiti]

its good to see all the opinions here! 

[MissLici126]

Who is lady talking? I don't agree with what she's saying. I do like the points that you made, i think hey are very true! and i dont even think thats its only with black men nowdays. i know thats whats its about, black people, but my husband , (we have 2 kids) is puerto rican , and i see us and other women who have boyfriendsand husbands of all races going through the same problems. I think men need to just step it up... PERIOD. no matter what race, i think men fell off...

[SenCiti]

I agree

[CHAQUI11]

I agree with you 100 i am married 5 years i Run my house hold I DO NOT WANT TO i tell his to step up my father was a role model AND provider til he died.Most men 30 or younger are to busy in the streets club,ect to really lead their family OR their fathers dropped the ball WE are living in the video ERA life is a pary how many woman and material things can they have WE AS BLACKS male and female have really dropped the ball!!! how can a man respect SOME of us when we act like loose women

[SenCiti]

Im sorry to hear about your loss...

[suzame11]

Senciti you have great insight

[SenCiti]

thanks

[JasmynL]

t, high cheek bones, curves, plump full lips, and gorgeous slanted eyes....white ppl try to bring in style what matches their overall body tupe which in reality is not what they even really want...the no ass trend (which most white men dont even like) or the sick skinny look....everyone wants to look fabulous and thats just the bottom line...period....self esteem and weave to me are not in the same category (no offense intended, just my honest opinion.....)

[mdna72]

Black women never blame the white man.black women have Stockholm syndrome

[68JUSTAMAN]

Yes, you do need a good man to guide you, but black women are constantly telling us they don't need us, we can't hold them down and make them listen.You have to be receptive to what a good man is, not be resentful of your role as the woman. Women do the choosing, so if there's no strong men in the homes, guess what, it's not the men. The reason weaves are around is because afros and braids don't mix in white society. It has nothing to do with what BM want, it's what WM won't accept.

[TheLuxurybrown]

Disagree you make it seem like woman are total reliant a men and we have no individuality no back bone. Woman can stand on their own. You should wear you hair a certain way because that's what you like. Woman cam lead themselves

[simleycane]

i agree....

[breadfruit09]

OH SHUT UP MAN .... WEARING WEAVE IS JUS TO PROTECT OUR NAUTRAL HAIR BEING BEING SO DAMAGE FROM ALL THESE HAIR AND COLORING .......AHHH I CANT EVEN FINISH MY DAMN SENTENSE .......YOU GUYS ARE JUS CHESSEING ME LIKE SHUT THE FUCK UP ..............................­........ PERIOD

[TheBlackGlenBeck]

self hating and disrespectful is a reflection of slavery, not the BM.

[TheBlackGlenBeck]

BW are in fact the enemy.

[JGvisions]

...im being series, give plausable realistic situations in life where a random man can seriously guide and influence a young sister and help her to deal with her issues and the such. I mean you can say while we are dating or marriage but thats the point. if we cant get to that level because of your innate abrasive and destructive behavior, how can we get to that level? Its like trying to get to level 100 in super mario brothers when level 1 is the hardest in the game!

[JGvisions]

...2.) behavior on an individual basis and positive influence is dependent on how receptive you are to the influence. if you have a whole group of men and women in seperate camps and when put into sitautions like school, work, social gatherings, on the street,ect., and the women's behavior is abrasive and unopen to that positive influence, how do you expect for a man(strong or weak) to be able to guide you when your to self absorbed and abrasive to deal with. why waste energy...part 2

[JGvisions]

1.) i would say that your response to the first part of the video is just shifting responsibility off of yourselves onto someone else. Specific situations like behavior during the beginning of courtship/dating/marriage, basic interaction within freindships, ect., Black men being pushed out of the job market subtle, ect., cannot all be blamed on black men. I can step up and say "ok, i stop selling on the block, i go to school, im not a deadbeat dad, i can stop cheating,ect....part 1