Ignoring someone you like

Guys, this one's for you. Do you ever purposely ignore a girl your into just to see how she reacts? If you do, why??

Girls, same question to you. Have you ever ignored a guy your into? - Answered by Tamsen Fadal & Matt Titus on GirlsAskGuys.com

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[jbenetiz]

The fact is I can even like a girl but if she doesn't give any indication of interest after I see her couple times I will definitely ignore her. I have dignity and an ego too. There are so many girls out there. Nobody likes to be ignored as the old says, "the more you ignore me, the closer I get."

[Jackosmack]

Yes the advice makes sense but I've always found it funny when women say "be confident" when they're not the ones putting themselves out there to be shot down. It's like saying "don't be afraid to run into a fire!" When they've never been a firefighter. It's very easy to say but it's nerve wracking as all hell. I think women should approach guys and get rejected a couple of times THEN see how it easy it is to say "Be confident." Not saying you're wrong, just finding the irony in those words.

[krushgutz]

Confidence is over rated. I know if I find someone attractive within the first glance. I don't care how they come across if they don't look good to me.

[NitroPazuzu]

"The ones you like do not like you, and you don't like the ones who do"

[letitsnowmichelle]

So this guy that i like is ignoring me. We were friends before, but out of nowhere he just starts ignoring me. What happened?

[PoptartFail]

For guys. Even if the girl likes you(But you dont know) and she ignores you. We immediately think oh fk you then and ignore you as well, or we say have i done something? i guess i should just leave her alone.. and there ya goo.

[MsCali91]

I ignore like second nature but it definitely makes things hard if you like the person and they stop trying to gain ur attention...u end up getting nothing in the end =)

[StrawberryFlower2009]

ok so if u think u are been ignored when u think someone likes you what do u do? I am starting to think he dosnt like me after all.... I dont know what u guys expect a girl to do I am not a mind reader if I talk to him more and he has gone off me then he wont like it, yet if I dont show interest and he is playing the ignoring game to get my attention and I ignore him back what hapens then? lol very confusing,why would a guy do this? yet I have had this happen before and they did like me!

[xxsoulEater101o]

ahh !! soo how do you ignore someone you like??

[MayaCherry86]

ignoring is a Fun game to play!

[ijcn0jir3nvjn3fjcifn]

i got married because of my confidence. that's so funny....

this sounds so good but the meanier i am the more girls approach me. my nice friends get none, well they get friends but not WOMEN.

[DrWisal]

I'm shy girl.Met nice guy i liked at gym.He used to smile at me ..saying very nice friendly hello,watching me trying 2be around me.i was available,approachable&nice to him,,BUT,,he never came 2 me and introduced himself ,which i found it somehow not understandable.I came to conclusion that either he's taken or simply doesn't like me,so,i started to avoid him .Now ,we're avoiding each others.Still i don't know anything about him.