Why Men Cheat (M. Gary Neuman)

M. Gary Neuman, marriage counselor & author of The Truth About Cheating, reveals the real reasons why men cheat. Learn more about infidelity at http://www.truthaboutcheating.com.

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• relationships
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• deception
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[spharris65]

the emotional connection to which your cheaters refer is the maternal incestuous fantasies these ego maniacs want from a spouse but can not have because she/he is a parent to her/his own children. GROW UP and face your responsibilities.

the cheater cheats because HE or SHE does not value the wedding vows each made on the day of worldly commitment to one another. anything else is just a padded cell for them (the cheater) to use a s reality buffer from her/his true destructive priorities.

[marynino2008]

As a woman I gotta say, i agree with this guy. :O Women always need to be reassured,want to feel appreciated etc..whereas the men don't? I think they do deserve a "pat on the back" as oppose to "i'm busy"..a woman would get that answer and she would feel sad and cry about it and say how hard she worked and gets no appreciation for it from her husband and that's "ok"..but a man says it and he needs to "grow up"? Of course it works both ways both should be treated with love and attn.

[karlsmith00]

men cheat because they can. it has nothing to do with what a wife does, looks like, says, etc. if he has the chance to do it, he will. end of story.

[karlsmith00]

@ebonics4everyone like every male who cheats is some business tycoon. you fucking idiot.

like there are no unattractive married men who fuck around on their wives all the time. there wouldn't be brothels in nevada or amsterdam if that were true. men will cheat if they can. that's it.

[ebonics4everyone]

If you're a woman, who demands loyalty from your boyfriend or husband, you need to settle for less that what turns you on. If you're willing to settle for a boring, unattractive, modest guy who likes sci-fi and video games, you may be in luck. If you insist on the jock or the power driven career business tycoon, you'd better accept the reality that he will cheat on you. Other women will always be there when you aren't.

[ebonics4everyone]

@marynino2008 It doesn't matter how much you butter up your man's ego. It's in his nature to cheat on you, when the opportunities present themselves. You wouldn't be physically attracted to a less virile male that is too sweet and kind. In fact, those guys are always the "friends" that don't get any love.

[ebonics4everyone]

@spharris65 It takes two to tango, and women will always stab other women in the back to be with a charismatic, powerful male. Women never let guys who respect women out of the "friend-zone."

[lelechelle]

@ notrustleft....leave! I also just found out mine has been cheating for years all discovered on facebook. Seek counseling if you really have to ask yourself what to do. I did because i refuse and know i deserve a good man.

[lelechelle]

I do believe this but I think that 12% you left out is how men are primal. That once they know you love them, the chase is done.

[mymusic777ify]

@millieboyent what kind of women have you met???you do realize there are women doesn't want anything from men at all.whatever gender or reason there are still no excuse for cheating either way!

[millieboyent]

@mymusic777ify

Women dont work at relationships either....they expect a man to settle for whatever they give them while a women gets everything she wants.....how is that right? Women expect to get things right away and make a man wait for whatever it is that he wants...

[millieboyent]

@marynino2008

I wish there were more women like you in the U.S.