THIS IS FITSPO
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You don't have to have a six pack to be fitspo. All these girls are examples of that, glad to see no ribs too :) I want to be pretty sturdy, and independent.
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First off, don't takes things so personally. This is aimed at those who want to get thin and are thinking about starving themselves. If you have an ED, sucks for you but I don't have much sympathy for you, read my response to Bannaberry86. So you have the right information and you still chose to hurt yourself. That is a choice, and it's suicide. Sorry but I think your mentally weak. I pulled myself out of a deep depression and changed my ways of thinking about myself. If I did it so can you.
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People with an eating disorder already have somebody in their head telling them they are weak, they are worthless, they are nothing, they are disgusting. Eating is one way to drown out this voice, purging and starving are both ways that they are slaves to that voice. I cannot fathom that reinforcing these messages through 'tough love' can in anyway help them break the cycle of their eating disorder.
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@tamithomas If it was said to me, I'd prove them wrong. I'd change my thinking, realize there are people who have real things to be sad about and that I am being weak for letting things depress me. But I told MYSELF I was weak. I got therapy, started believing I was strong, living it and all of the sudden I wasn't depressed anymore. Tough love works for some people, it works for me most of the time. I use this channel to share what worked and is working for me. Grow up you say? I say Toughin up
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omg!!! one of the girls u featured in here is the personal trainer i get my workouts from !!! :D btw verry cool FITspo. im trying hard to obtain a feminine 6pack myself and this is an awesome song. 10/10 on this fitspo :)
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these girls have HUGE thighs and they're just tonned really.. not i aspire to be..but i don't want to be anorexic before anyone gets that idea.
omg everyone stop attention seeking and watch the vid. Or alternatively F*** off (in the nicest way possible)
Elliebean1314 1 month ago
@Elliebean1314 In the most non creepy way possible... I love you :-)
MsBeautyfulDisaster 1 month ago
I made the statements I did in the video because that was the impression I got from every person I have met that has an ED. The just don't wanna do the work, don't want to change thier ways, they'd rather take the easy way and just not put anything in their mouths or puke it up. As I've said before, its alot harder to defeat your inner demons that are the root of the disorder. Stop making excuses, Its in your head, change your thinking, adhere to your new ways and watch yourself change.
MsBeautyfulDisaster 1 month ago
btw try not to be so harsh on the people with eating disorders.i get u were depressed & pulled urself out of it but these people havnt yet.remember its not a choice & TRUE eating disorders (not all the wannorexics ur probably thinking of)are treated with medicine & maybe these people were harshly taunted, abused at home, living by themselves & rejected.membr that an eating disordr isnt usualy about the eating but trauma about something else projected thru eating habits.try to b more sensitiv
mkaykay876 2 months ago
@mkaykay876 1st read my response 2 tami. I realize there are those who have a serious problem. But I feel that problems like this aren't gonna go away with sugar coated therapy. I had 2 be aggressive with myself 2 get out. Having a compassionate and sympathetic approach seems like the way 2 go but for me it was better to hit it head on. But again, it's what worked for me. Some may be offended, but I have learned in 26 years that being overly sensitive gets you nowhere, life requires a thick skin
MsBeautyfulDisaster 1 month ago