RELATIONSHIPS The Rubbish People Believe

This is me speaking my mind in response to a video I had seen about chasing woman. There are things I agree with, that you do not go around chasing and that yes, money does come first and foremost. It's the very fact the idiot bangs off with sexist, chauvinistic male arrogance that woman only want you for your money. To give information about the way these one track minded fools think and to correct them, to give them information why they are completely wrong.

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[kalianna1662]

lmfao you are now my guru, thank you

[ScottMcK9]

@kalianna1662 lol Guru, I think that means you agree with what I've said lol :D

[SuperYellow1989]

its funny how people say , "this is the true me", and they normally say it when they do something good ... (they dont tend to say that when they've made a utter twat out of themselves lol)

Buts its all you, everything you do is your "true personality". Its only not "you" when it feels wrong or uncomfortable to your natural nature/response.

thats what ive learnt recently anyway, just to be comfortable with my choices and confident enough to go against any pressure.

[ScottMcK9]

@SuperYellow1989 A lot just fake being good to fit in, hiding who they are. Problem is, they do that, they get into a relationship and their real them shows through. And aye I wouldn't feel comfortable, so I can relate to what you're saying lol

[SuperYellow1989]

agreed.

its like those comedians who say all that "woman never stop talking" or "men are all the same" rubbish.

Of course you do get some women who run after money otherwise there wouldnt be a stereotype of it but its irritating to generalise people.

and its even sadder that we have to constantly remind people not to lump us all in as the same.

n i dont get the mind games of dating sometimes, im 22 , i cant bare when men play mind games, just makes u feel more distance between u and him.

[ScottMcK9]

@SuperYellow1989 Well at the end of the day, I just don't see the point in generalising all lassies in the one boat really. And aye, there are lassies that do that, but I believe that guys will only end up with what they get themselves into. If intuitive enough, you can tell what's right from wrong, depending on the persons personality.

As for mind games, it's a waste of time, if you like someone you, you like them.

[ScottMcK9]

@toplasestra Completely agree with you, because in life, no one is perfect, there will be a lot of guys you may come across with faults, but their not bad people. It's like me, I have my faults, but I'd never intentionally be spiteful to hurt someone, not in my nature. As for people grouping, it's wrong, and that's what I can't understand, the whole group of whether you're nice or bad, it's stupid. It's like you could be a nice person, but be more independent than that of a bad person.

[toplasestra]

@ScottMcK9 Same with me, which is why I'll ask that question :) I remember thinking to myself, "Why are all these guys such jerks?!", then I figured that it probably wasn't all guys. I was probably just passing up on the better ones. It's silly how people just lump everyone into "this group" and "that group". Yeah, you'll meet some asses, but that's life, right?

[ScottMcK9]

@toplasestra Insecurities is a massive thing thing, I completely agree with you. Also agree with one pointing the finger at another, I'm honest to say I've done that myself, think we all have at one point or another. Often it is a case where you really do have to step back, take time and figure what you've done wrong, it's a fault of my own. And the reason you get a blank answer is because what you said is often very true!

[toplasestra]

I think insecurity is a big part of it, both for men and women. It also seems like a lot of people are quick to point the finger at other someone else, but they never take a step back to see what they might or might not be doing to make it better. I can't count how many people have griped on to me about how the opposite (or same) sex is evil, and I'd ask, "Do you think you're being attracted to the wrong kind of person/qualities?" and the only response I get is a blank, confused stare.